Here are the thoughts of an 50 something hobbyest.
1. I think a serious relationship is far more important in the long run than quick sex. So while you enjoy this hobby try to find and build that relation if that is what you want.
2. I would bet dollars to donuts that the vast majority of people here are married or in some form of relationship. Maybe do a survey and see.
For example I’m married and have been for 30 years.
At first I went to SP and MP to get the amount and type of sex I wanted.
I travelled for business a lot so started outside the GTA then realized how abundant it is here.
But then in the last 5 years i started to talk openly to my wife about the stuff I wanted and what she wanted. Once we started to communicate we started to have much more and better sex. I’m oversimplifying the process but communication is key.
And no my wife doesn’t know about this site, that would be dumb.
I rarely see SPs any more ( Last time was last summer) and I only see MP who give quality massages, and I generally don’t care about their looks or age.
3. That is my story. Figure out what you want your story to be and then take the steps to get there. IMHO the main ingredient to getting what you want out of life is perseverance!
4. The sad truth my friend is that you are now trapped. Unless you have an inhuman amount of will, and regardless of whether you get a GF or wife, you will see an SP or MPA again.
Good luck
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As many member mentioned above going to MP/SP provides sex that a GF will not. Honestly a gf is not any cheaper than visiting MP/SP
Seems like you many others are juggling relationship and hobbying pretty well.
didn't expect so many people here to be in a relationship
Hobbying definitely have addictive aspects.
You've been married 4 years more than I have been alive, hopefully I'm not trapped this early haha.