MPA/SP vs GF/Wife

[MoreFunDay]

what are people's perspective on being in a relationship vs seeing mpa/sp.

I have never had a serious relationship. broke up with my only gf of 6 month beginning of last year
Then I found this forum after couple of horrible sessions from mpa, then pandemic hit

went to see couple more mpa under the recommendation of couple of you guys on this forum and the experience was much better
Then 2 more month of lock down...

I assume most people here are single here, does it give you more freedom to not have a gf and see mpa/sp
Or would most people prefer having a gf

Not too sure to focus on finding a gf or continue seeing mpa after the lockdown lifts

Being stuck alone really sucks...

 

[Deleted member 78398]

I always figured the majority of those that patron MP’s were attached/married. It’s easier than sneaking around at bars, discretion is paramount etc, but I suppose you make an interesting point with Covid going on. I can’t imagine being single right now. At least I had bars to go to in my single days.

 

[tnycman]

what are people's perspective on being in a relationship vs seeing mpa/sp.

I have never had a serious relationship. broke up with my only gf of 6 month beginning of last year
Then I found this forum after couple of horrible sessions from mpa, then pandemic hit

went to see couple more mpa under the recommendation of couple of you guys on this forum and the experience was much better
Then 2 more month of lock down...

I assume most people here are single here, does it give you more freedom to not have a gf and see mpa/sp
Or would most people prefer having a gf

Not too sure to focus on finding a gf or continue seeing mpa after the lockdown lifts

Being stuck alone really sucks...

MP's arw cheaper than wifes, in the long run at least. Not to mention the fact that you xan switch up and if you don't like her you don't have to see her again.

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[Old No. 7]

I assume most people here are single here,

You might be surprised at the number of hobbyists who are married.

 

[bobbymuck]

MPs are the only way to keep a marriage “happy”... in my opinion!

 

[Deleted member 79939]

what are people's perspective on being in a relationship vs seeing mpa/sp.

I have never had a serious relationship. broke up with my only gf of 6 month beginning of last year
Then I found this forum after couple of horrible sessions from mpa, then pandemic hit

went to see couple more mpa under the recommendation of couple of you guys on this forum and the experience was much better
Then 2 more month of lock down...

I assume most people here are single here, does it give you more freedom to not have a gf and see mpa/sp
Or would most people prefer having a gf

Not too sure to focus on finding a gf or continue seeing mpa after the lockdown lifts

Being stuck alone really sucks...

What ?

 

[MoreFunDay]

MP's arw cheaper than wifes, in the long run at least. Not to mention the fact that you xan switch up and if you don't like her you don't have to see her again.

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Then this seems like the most economical way to go

 

[MoreFunDay]

You might be surprised at the number of hobbyists who are married.

Really? From the posts it seems most people here are more focused on their business than spending time settling down, and go out for fun once a while.

 

[asiabuffet]

I spent many years hobbying while single or not really in any serious long term relationship. It was a good way to focus on my career without the time and work needed for a serious relationship. I chose my career over settling down early. Now that I am older I regret not dating more all those years ago as finding a potential gf or wife is significantly harder now. Also I find a lot of girls I meet on apps are only interested in my money and status. All women want security. it’s just to a lesser degree when you date back in university or in your 20s. You can’t turn back time.

In regards to actual sex, going to MPs and escorts is much better than civilian sex at least for me. The game has changed so much in the spas these days. 10 years ago the mileage was so low and basic. The things these girls are doing now are really pushing the envelop. I’m basically saying sex with the gf or wife doesn’t compare to hobbying anymore. This hobby literally changes your life and messes up your standards. You expect things that civilian girls don’t normally do. It’s like watching porno and actually believing real life sex is what you see in the movies. Plus it’s easy, clean, no strings attached, and when you get sick of a girl you pick another. Relationships are hard.

All this is just my opinion. I’m sure some guys are happily married with a decent sex life and they only hobby for a change or to stay sane. My history is a little different. Never been married or in a relationship lasting over 2 years.

 

[Sybarite]

The thing that makes it really addictive is that while porn is not at all real life sex with most real life women, these days lots of spas are actually offering real life porn experiences! The dream becomes reality!

Given the choice, most guys want porn sex. That's why porn is huge. Real women can't compete....

But can you create a family or have a fully formed relationship for the other 23 hours in a day you're not having sex with a woman who specializes in providing porn level sex to a multitude of guys? In most cases that's not going to work.

So in many ways visiting sex workers truly is superior to all the hassles and work of a wife or a girlfriend, but yet you are really going to miss out on much of life's rich pageantry and greatest rewards if you can't negotiate a real relationship with a full time significant other.

Getting hooked on sex workers makes those real relationships much harder, if not impossible, so it's really worthwhile to think about the long run and the big picture, because as far as the sex goes, yes it's way better and far easier: that's both the solution and the problem!

 

[Sybarite]

MPs are the only way to keep a marriage “happy”... in my opinion!

"Adultery is the basis of civilization because in making marriage bearable, it perpetuates the family."
– Collette

 

[xtc27]

I spent many years hobbying while single or not really in any serious long term relationship. It was a good way to focus on my career without the time and work needed for a serious relationship. I chose my career over settling down early. Now that I am older I regret not dating more all those years ago as finding a potential gf or wife is significantly harder now. Also I find a lot of girls I meet on apps are only interested in my money and status. All women want security. it’s just to a lesser degree when you date back in university or in your 20s. You can’t turn back time.

In regards to actual sex, going to MPs and escorts is much better than civilian sex at least for me. The game has changed so much in the spas these days. 10 years ago the mileage was so low and basic. The things these girls are doing now are really pushing the envelop. I’m basically saying sex with the gf or wife doesn’t compare to hobbying anymore. This hobby literally changes your life and messes up your standards. You expect things that civilian girls don’t normally do. It’s like watching porno and actually believing real life sex is what you see in the movies. Plus it’s easy, clean, no strings attached, and when you get sick of a girl you pick another. Relationships are hard.

All this is just my opinion. I’m sure some guys are happily married with a decent sex life and they only hobby for a change or to stay sane. My history is a little different. Never been married or in a relationship lasting over 2 years.

... if looking, w/o a doubt, I’d find Chinese girl in her 30s... guys over there? Gotta b young bride, even older guys want‘m... many gr8 girls left behind...

...they even look other way if u hobby a bit... way more accepted over there...

... it’s a bit of hobbyIng hazard 4me... GFE experience, w kissing & sweet talk, my thing... some girls hear actual wedding bells... fun when mileage increases, but then....

...Well, sitting in her car, life story retold, she wants 2go my place... there’s a robot in my head screaming DANGER DANGER WARNING WARNING....

 

[Deleted member 79939]

I spent many years hobbying while single or not really in any serious long term relationship. It was a good way to focus on my career without the time and work needed for a serious relationship. I chose my career over settling down early. Now that I am older I regret not dating more all those years ago as finding a potential gf or wife is significantly harder now. Also I find a lot of girls I meet on apps are only interested in my money and status. All women want security. it’s just to a lesser degree when you date back in university or in your 20s. You can’t turn back time.

In regards to actual sex, going to MPs and escorts is much better than civilian sex at least for me. The game has changed so much in the spas these days. 10 years ago the mileage was so low and basic. The things these girls are doing now are really pushing the envelop. I’m basically saying sex with the gf or wife doesn’t compare to hobbying anymore. This hobby literally changes your life and messes up your standards. You expect things that civilian girls don’t normally do. It’s like watching porno and actually believing real life sex is what you see in the movies. Plus it’s easy, clean, no strings attached, and when you get sick of a girl you pick another. Relationships are hard.

All this is just my opinion. I’m sure some guys are happily married with a decent sex life and they only hobby for a change or to stay sane. My history is a little different. Never been married or in a relationship lasting over 2 years.

Is marriage good for vacation sex ????

 

[Deleted member 79939]

MP's arw cheaper than wifes, in the long run at least. Not to mention the fact that you xan switch up and if you don't like her you don't have to see her again.

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They why are there more wives
And why wedding is loved by women
It’s Universal

 

[Woge]

Mp's/escorts are much cheaper than divorce

 

[Old No. 7]

Really? From the posts it seems most people here are more focused on their business than spending time settling down, and go out for fun once a while.

Ask a few MPAs how if they have many married clients.

 

[Back in Toronto]

Of course a DECENT wife is best. A monogamous relationship means you can enjoy bbbjcim, daty, dfk... without worry of STIs. Plus having children is the best.

The problem is that a lot of wives don't want to do what the husband likes, including even vanilla stuff like bj and most don't give the frequency the guy wants. The only time I got everything I wanted, was when I had a gf less than half my age. Women and men peak at very different times in their lives.

Then again, with all the pornography and other satanic filth out there, a lot of guys ask for vile shit, like having women rim their filthy hairy arseholes, anal, cumming on their face, and I'm sure some (like the jews here) want their woman to pretend to be children, like epstein... did and I'm sure quite a few are scat freaks, but if you've had APARTHEID israel food, you'd get them liking scat.

My point, work to improve yourself, get a decent wife, be reasonable and then you'll have a happy life. #BDS

 

[Back in Toronto]

Mp's/escorts are much cheaper than divorce

Bringing home an STI from a sex worker will get you a divorce, an expensive, jew shyster, satanic court, screw up your children being raised in their jew homosexual satanic school system without a father divorce.

Good luck.

 

[sugar3d]

what are people's perspective on being in a relationship vs seeing mpa/sp.

I have never had a serious relationship. broke up with my only gf of 6 month beginning of last year
Then I found this forum after couple of horrible sessions from mpa, then pandemic hit

went to see couple more mpa under the recommendation of couple of you guys on this forum and the experience was much better
Then 2 more month of lock down...

I assume most people here are single here, does it give you more freedom to not have a gf and see mpa/sp
Or would most people prefer having a gf

Not too sure to focus on finding a gf or continue seeing mpa after the lockdown lifts

Being stuck alone really sucks...

Here are the thoughts of an 50 something hobbyest.

1. I think a serious relationship is far more important in the long run than quick sex. So while you enjoy this hobby try to find and build that relation if that is what you want.

2. I would bet dollars to donuts that the vast majority of people here are married or in some form of relationship. Maybe do a survey and see.

For example I’m married and have been for 30 years.

At first I went to SP and MP to get the amount and type of sex I wanted.
I travelled for business a lot so started outside the GTA then realized how abundant it is here.
But then in the last 5 years i started to talk openly to my wife about the stuff I wanted and what she wanted. Once we started to communicate we started to have much more and better sex. I’m oversimplifying the process but communication is key.

And no my wife doesn’t know about this site, that would be dumb.

I rarely see SPs any more ( Last time was last summer) and I only see MP who give quality massages, and I generally don’t care about their looks or age.

3. That is my story. Figure out what you want your story to be and then take the steps to get there. IMHO the main ingredient to getting what you want out of life is perseverance!

4. The sad truth my friend is that you are now trapped. Unless you have an inhuman amount of will, and regardless of whether you get a GF or wife, you will see an SP or MPA again.

Good luck


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[luvnewpussy]

If anyone in here thinks they can get all what they need in one women you are a fool and new to this thing we call life.

From some if you guys post I can tell who has SO, matured or who is fresh out of high school and just new to paying for pussy with whores.

Everyone one has someone there fucking on the side. Call it wife, girlfriend, fuck friend, whatever. I laugh when I hear guys divorcing thinking there going to find something better..ahahah there's nothing better. She had something you liked she just doesn't have everything.. who the fuck does ?? No women has it all..and everyman's needs change as they progress thru life.

One person cannot be your personal whore and slut and be also the mother of your children who also makes you pancakes and eggs and talk about last night's game. This is the false romantic bullshit dream that both men search to find. You will search forever my friend. 1 women will never have all you need and that's not any negative against them.

I have learned
People you like are pieces of your puzzle. No single piece is the whole puzzle . No single piece is worth more. Dont mix up your puzzles. All these women (so, mpa, wife, girlfriend) all serve a purpose to what we need. They fill a portion of our cup, they contribute to your puzzle , but they will never fill all of it.

I have 4 ladies in my life which balance me out. Some are for fucking , some are for taking business , some are for making pancakes..lol..Each serving a different purpose. None fulfilling all. When you understand this logic you will be a better man and your goal is to find the people /pieces you are missing and add them to your puzzle .

That was was the deep explanation for you philosophically types.

For you simple minds , let me summarize
Variety is the spice of life.