MPA/SP vs GF/Wife

[MoreFunDay]

Here are the thoughts of an 50 something hobbyest.

1. I think a serious relationship is far more important in the long run than quick sex. So while you enjoy this hobby try to find and build that relation if that is what you want.

2. I would bet dollars to donuts that the vast majority of people here are married or in some form of relationship. Maybe do a survey and see.

For example I’m married and have been for 30 years.

At first I went to SP and MP to get the amount and type of sex I wanted.
I travelled for business a lot so started outside the GTA then realized how abundant it is here.
But then in the last 5 years i started to talk openly to my wife about the stuff I wanted and what she wanted. Once we started to communicate we started to have much more and better sex. I’m oversimplifying the process but communication is key.

And no my wife doesn’t know about this site, that would be dumb.

I rarely see SPs any more ( Last time was last summer) and I only see MP who give quality massages, and I generally don’t care about their looks or age.

3. That is my story. Figure out what you want your story to be and then take the steps to get there. IMHO the main ingredient to getting what you want out of life is perseverance!

4. The sad truth my friend is that you are now trapped. Unless you have an inhuman amount of will, and regardless of whether you get a GF or wife, you will see an SP or MPA again.

Good luck

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As many member mentioned above going to MP/SP provides sex that a GF will not. Honestly a gf is not any cheaper than visiting MP/SP

Seems like you many others are juggling relationship and hobbying pretty well.
didn't expect so many people here to be in a relationship

Hobbying definitely have addictive aspects.
You've been married 4 years more than I have been alive, hopefully I'm not trapped this early haha.

 

[MoreFunDay]

If anyone in here thinks they can get all what they need in one women you are a fool and new to this thing we call life.

From some if you guys post I can tell who has SO, matured or who is fresh out of high school and just new to paying for pussy with whores.

Everyone one has someone there fucking on the side. Call it wife, girlfriend, fuck friend, whatever. I laugh when I hear guys divorcing thinking there going to find something better..ahahah there's nothing better. She had something you liked she just doesn't have everything.. who the fuck does ?? No women has it all..and everyman's needs change as they progress thru life.

One person cannot be your personal whore and slut and be also the mother of your children who also makes you pancakes and eggs and talk about last night's game. This is the false romantic bullshit dream that both men search to find. You will search forever my friend. 1 women will never have all you need and that's not any negative against them.

I have learned
People you like are pieces of your puzzle. No single piece is the whole puzzle . No single piece is worth more. Dont mix up your puzzles. All these women (so, mpa, wife, girlfriend) all serve a purpose to what we need. They fill a portion of our cup, they contribute to your puzzle , but they will never fill all of it.

I have 4 ladies in my life which balance me out. Some are for fucking , some are for taking business , some are for making pancakes..lol..Each serving a different purpose. None fulfilling all. When you understand this logic you will be a better man and your goal is to find the people /pieces you are missing and add them to your puzzle .

That was was the deep explanation for you philosophically types.

For you simple minds , let me summarize
Variety is the spice of life.

That's a really good way to put it.

 

[Deleted member 79939]

As many member mentioned above going to MP/SP provides sex that a GF will not. Honestly a gf is not any cheaper than visiting MP/SP

Seems like you many others are juggling relationship and hobbying pretty well.
didn't expect so many people here to be in a relationship

Hobbying definitely have addictive aspects.
You've been married 4 years more than I have been alive, hopefully I'm not trapped this early haha.

God made it for people to have wife.
God made it for people to marry.
God made it for people to have exotic massasge in their old age.
But first marry.
Second, divorce by God destiny, if you wish to , dude.
But marry .
You can marry an actress or a huntress or a siren or a diva or a liar or a milf.
OKAY????

 

[LaymanWayne]

If anyone in here thinks they can get all what they need in one women you are a fool and new to this thing we call life.

From some if you guys post I can tell who has SO, matured or who is fresh out of high school and just new to paying for pussy with whores.

Everyone one has someone there fucking on the side. Call it wife, girlfriend, fuck friend, whatever. I laugh when I hear guys divorcing thinking there going to find something better..ahahah there's nothing better. She had something you liked she just doesn't have everything.. who the fuck does ?? No women has it all..and everyman's needs change as they progress thru life.

One person cannot be your personal whore and slut and be also the mother of your children who also makes you pancakes and eggs and talk about last night's game. This is the false romantic bullshit dream that both men search to find. You will search forever my friend. 1 women will never have all you need and that's not any negative against them.

I have learned
People you like are pieces of your puzzle. No single piece is the whole puzzle . No single piece is worth more. Dont mix up your puzzles. All these women (so, mpa, wife, girlfriend) all serve a purpose to what we need. They fill a portion of our cup, they contribute to your puzzle , but they will never fill all of it.

I have 4 ladies in my life which balance me out. Some are for fucking , some are for taking business , some are for making pancakes..lol..Each serving a different purpose. None fulfilling all. When you understand this logic you will be a better man and your goal is to find the people /pieces you are missing and add them to your puzzle .

That was was the deep explanation for you philosophically types.

For you simple minds , let me summarize
Variety is the spice of life.

Lol , things we do come up with ( use rationalising) for our addiction. Nevertheless, without rationalising our insanity we can’t stay sane in these society.


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[Axis]

...being stuck alone really sucks...

You're clearly one of those glass half empty blokes aren't you?

Being single is amazing!
Perspective!

If you're with someone serious and seeing an SP, or other people, you should have the courtesy to be safe at least.

 

[MoreFunDay]

You're clearly one of those glass half empty blokes aren't you?

Being single is amazing!
Perspective!

If you're with someone serious and seeing an SP, or other people, you should have the courtesy to be safe at least.

Just covid lock downs are really getting to me
for entire 2 month I go out once a week to get groceries
rest of the time just spent online working or with friends
I'm definitely not complaining about being single


"If you're with someone serious and seeing an SP, or other people, you should have the courtesy to be safe at least."
got neither right now lol, but fore sure always play safe

 

[karlcox]

when I’m not in a relationship I bang girls off of tinder. I’m am still at an age where that’s easy to do and costs $20 for a bottle of wine. I would take that over paying any day of the week.

when I’m in a relationship i use MPs once in a while

 

[Sybarite]

Of course a DECENT wife is best. A monogamous relationship means you can enjoy bbbjcim, daty, dfk... without worry of STIs. Plus having children is the best.

The problem is that a lot of wives don't want to do what the husband likes...

= you will NOT enjoy bbbjcim, daty, dfk...

My point, work to improve yourself, get a decent wife, be reasonable and then you'll have a happy life. #BDS

... with your wife who doesn't "want to do what the husband likes, including even vanilla stuff like bj..."

 

[firepro29.2016]

Sex with the wife is good for making love.
MPA’s are good for getting dirty and getting the poison out of your system.

 

[Deleted member 79939]

= you will NOT enjoy bbbjcim, daty, dfk...



... with your wife who doesn't "want to do what the husband likes, including even vanilla stuff like bj..."

God says u have to divorce and marrry
Only have some ex wife

 

[Deleted member 79939]

As many member mentioned above going to MP/SP provides sex that a GF will not. Honestly a gf is not any cheaper than visiting MP/SP

Seems like you many others are juggling relationship and hobbying pretty well.
didn't expect so many people here to be in a relationship

Hobbying definitely have addictive aspects.
You've been married 4 years more than I have been alive, hopefully I'm not trapped this early haha.

Please marry Elizabeth

 

[Dongo]

My point, work to improve yourself, get a decent wife, be reasonable and then you'll have a happy life.

I urge you to take your own advice, in the improvement department, perhaps start with some tolerance. To take this to the max you of course will forego contributing to social moral decay, by staying out of the MP/ SP scene. That would be a reasonable approach to not encouraging the girls that choose to work in the sex craft. I wish you an improved and happy life.

 

[JaimeWolf]

Just covid lock downs are really getting to me
for entire 2 month I go out once a week to get groceries
rest of the time just spent online working or with friends
I'm definitely not complaining about being single

That's your choice to stay isolated. 600+ SPs advertising on LeoList each day, which means there are at least 60 good ones happy to take your money. No law (at least nothing enforceable) against two people meeting up and fucking.

 

[MoreFunDay]

That's your choice to stay isolated. 600+ SPs advertising on LeoList each day, which means there are at least 60 good ones happy to take your money. No law (at least nothing enforceable) against two people meeting up and fucking.

Its true that its my own choice to stay. It's pretty irresponsible to go out and meet people with close physical contact during this period
I didn't want to put myself or anyone else at risk, it is really selfish to do so

This is a just a really crappy times

 

[Kurapika]

I would say enjoy MPA's and gain experience / have fun with them until you can meet a woman that attracts you in the right way, and has the maturity to respect the quality that even an average man can bring to her life.

The average expectations that average and even below average women have are way out of proportion with what they have to offer in return, and what men can actually offer them in the first place.
These ones are not even worth your time, or consideration because they only exist to be a burden on your life.

A woman that has her own real job is probably one of the most attractive traits a woman can have other then raw beauty. - a woman that is working, and earning her own money knows, and understands more deeply the value of time, and money.
Women that don't are basically worse then children in this department almost to the point of evil - and in my experience this is actually a very reoccurring trait that I see in average / below average women.

For me I'm way happier single, because I haven't met the right woman who is also attracted to me, and wants to work honestly toward the same things,
if / when I do I'd be happy to be with just that woman, but until then it'll be MPA's for me, because women that aren't actively mutually meeting the relationship with the same effort will almost always betray you for the new better thing - it's just so much more of a happier thing knowing once your time is over with your MPA that you don't have to worry about it until you decide you want to see them again - it puts at least the initial power of "choice" in the mans hands, and obviously the women can choose not to see you as well - it goes both ways.
At least with the MPA's that I keep around they respect what I pay them enough to treat me like a god damn human being - women that I date just expect things for no other reason other then "we are dating" even when the sex is trash, even when she is flaunting all of her baggage, even when they offer nothing in return. - The right MPA is the COMPLETE ABSENCE of this. - and they don't have as many confidence issues because they understand how easy it actually is to please a man, and they respect the improvements that money brings their lives.

The ones that don't are not trying.

 

[Back in Toronto]

I urge you to take your own advice, in the improvement department, perhaps start with some tolerance. To take this to the max you of course will forego contributing to social moral decay, by staying out of the MP/ SP scene. That would be a reasonable approach to not encouraging the girls that choose to work in the sex craft. I wish you an improved and happy life.

Says the HYPOCRITE that's been on this board for many years, well before I got here.

And unlike you, I'll never have "tolerance" for the satanic/zionist APARTHEID israel jew that have been butchering the Native Palestinians for almost a century. It's your ilk that has allowed that genocide to continue for so long. If it were only for your ilk, South Africa would also still be APARTHEID South Africa, but I'm sure you'd prefer it that way. #BDS #PATHETIC

 

[Deleted member 79939]

.... It looks that you are FREE - no attachments and no commitments . You should be happy and benefit - and all men in your situation of freedom.
You may try a trip of at least 3 weeks in one of the countries where such girls and women are easy to find and enjoy their services and your freedom - at the best.
You may like and get attached to one such girl or woman - and take a discussion and judgement to sponsor her to Canada (convenience - marriage) - and benefit of her services on a longer term. You may help her to settle in Canada - but at one stage she will leave you (divorce - so pay attention to a prenuptial or any legal aspect) - or she may decide to stay with you. If you and she - will decide to stay together she might limit her services - and that will be inevitable. But you will benefit for best services for a period of time - and also can make and benefit of a selection based on your choices. Countries as S Korea, China, Philippines, Russia became expensive - but Vietnam, Cambodia, Laos are more affordable and very good quality and wide choice of such girls and women available.
One may go for a one or more trips - short or longer ones - but the cost will be compensated in time. You may decide for getting together with a friend or more - for such trips - and such endeavors.
Many such girls and women would be interested to come to Canada - and they would do anything for such opportunity. Just must be careful at all the details. Just be smart and play your own - 50 shades of chances .....
Girls and women from Canada are high maintenance, limited services, very difficult to find and approach.
But think that you are freeeeeee ....

Why people get wife
When they know all men get fs

 

[Back in Toronto]

God says u have to divorce and marrry
Only have some ex wife

The satanic jew stopped believing in God when they turned their backs to him to LITERALLY worship gold in front of Moses himself. And then having tried to have Jesus tortured to death and then trying to kill Muhammad by having a jew woman poison him. Certainly proves they worship the devil, not God.

Jesus says in the Bible about the jew, "you are of your father, the devil and his bidding you will do"! Jesus got that right as well as attacking their jew usury. But I'm sure none of the "Christians" here don't even know where to find that verse in the Bible. God also says in the Qur'an that He has cursed the jew for their evil and that their eternal abode will be Hellfire.

And already provided a few verses from their satanic/zionist talmud, which they ADMITTED they wrote themselves, to REPLACE the Torah, Gospel and Qur'an. Apparently the jew think they know better than God, and LITERALLY day so in the talmud!!!!!

So telling them to stop violating our human women, is like trying to tell epstein dershowitz allen wexner polanski weiner weinstein simmons ratner...to stop violating children or using their positions to coerce actresses into sex. #BDS

 

[Back in Toronto]

I would say enjoy MPA's and gain experience / have fun with them until you can meet a woman that attracts you in the right way, and has the maturity to respect the quality that even an average man can bring to her life.

The average expectations that average and even below average women have are way out of proportion with what they have to offer in return, and what men can actually offer them in the first place.
These ones are not even worth your time, or consideration because they only exist to be a burden on your life.

A woman that has her own real job is probably one of the most attractive traits a woman can have other then raw beauty. - a woman that is working, and earning her own money knows, and understands more deeply the value of time, and money.
Women that don't are basically worse then children in this department almost to the point of evil - and in my experience this is actually a very reoccurring trait that I see in average / below average women.

For me I'm way happier single, because I haven't met the right woman who is also attracted to me, and wants to work honestly toward the same things,
if / when I do I'd be happy to be with just that woman, but until then it'll be MPA's for me, because women that aren't actively mutually meeting the relationship with the same effort will almost always betray you for the new better thing - it's just so much more of a happier thing knowing once your time is over with your MPA that you don't have to worry about it until you decide you want to see them again - it puts at least the initial power of "choice" in the mans hands, and obviously the women can choose not to see you as well - it goes both ways.
At least with the MPA's that I keep around they respect what I pay them enough to treat me like a god damn human being - women that I date just expect things for no other reason other then "we are dating" even when the sex is trash, even when she is flaunting all of her baggage, even when they offer nothing in return. - The right MPA is the COMPLETE ABSENCE of this. - and they don't have as many confidence issues because they understand how easy it actually is to please a man, and they respect the improvements that money brings their lives.

The ones that don't are not trying.

My ex had a fugly, obese, satanic jew sow of a shyster that took more money from me AND my children in one day of being an evil jew lawyer (redundant) than I've spend on MPAs in my life.

And I'm sure a ton of married men see MPAs because their useless wives either won't please them or use sex as a weapon. MPAs diffuse that weapon. I had an ex that was great in the bedroom, until she got pregnant. Pretty much one position after that.

And it's the jew that screwed up marriage in the West. Filthy jews like freud and brandais convinced housewives that going to work, leaving their children with strangers, drinking, smoking, dressing like whores, making pornography...was LIBERATION! Well congratulations ladies, you are free from being a wife and mother, to be a slave to your 9 to 5, daycare, pharmaceuticals, alcohol, tobacco...#BDS

 

[Back in Toronto]

Sex with the wife is good for making love.
MPA’s are good for getting dirty and getting the poison out of your system.

I had a gf for two years that was hotter and gave me everything I wanted, several times a day, for hours! Then again, she was less than half my age. Smoking hot Latina. Ironically, I broke up with her because she was too young to want children and I wanted more children after the jew courts/lawyers/children's aid scum, gave my children to my ex.

May God continue to curse that satanic/zionist devil worshiping race. #BDS