Chat Hobby tips and lessons learned...

[OG_funguy]

As we kick off another year, I thought it would be helpful to talk about the lessons we learned from our hobby experience. I've listed a few below to kick things off...

1. Set a budget and don't spend more than you can afford. Over time, your list of 'regulars' will grow. You don't want to be spending your rent money or kid's education on hobbying.

2. Have an escape plan in case you don't like what you see...e.g. have a name of an MPA working on another day, so if necessary, you can pretend to ask for that other MPA instead.

3. We all want to save money but don't haggle and don't be cheap. All these ladies talk to each other and you don't want to be labeled as a cheap ass. At a minimum, pay 'market' rates.

4. If you don't want your car caught on camera, park further away and walk there. Some guys even turn off their phone while driving there and leave it in the car too.

5. Get to know the owners...if the owner is to your liking, have sessions with her (less clock watching, private appts, etc.). Plus, they will let you come during lockdowns

6. Don't tell MPAs you know about this site (most are worried you will write something about them and will be more restrictive).

7. If you really like an MPA, get her contact info before she disappears one day.

8. Take reviews here with a grain of salt as some guys like to embellish or may have different tastes than you.

9. Don't over rely on the reviews here and go exploring on your own. I found most of my faves this way.

 

[cupcrazy]

1) don't ask for a contact number in the first session, chances are you will not going to get one. Wait until the second session and make sure they remember you.
2) Get a wechat account, girls generally willing to give you their wechat ID rather than the phone number.
3) know which member is an influencer on here. Don't listen to their bullshits as they are working hard to promote their spas they are working.
4) log out or turn off your cell phones, some mpa will bug you if you don't visit them frequently. Considering blocking them completely.
5) have reasonable expectations. You get what you paid for. Most will not offer kissing, don't expect it to happe. BBFS or BBBJ is extremly rare.
6) Do some research about the spa you are about to visit. If you can bullshit some names who work there may lead to better services (since they think you are a repeat).

 

[rxxxryan]

turn off location services on your phone or even better turn off your phone completely when travelling to the spa. I realized almost a year later that even though I wasn't using google maps to get to the spa it was still tracking my location. I had history of all my driving trips to the spa.

 

[Hornet]

turn off location services on your phone or even better turn off your phone completely when travelling to the spa. I realized almost a year later that even though I wasn't using google maps to get to the spa it was still tracking my location. I had history of all my driving trips to the spa.

Did the wife use Find my Phone while you were in session?

 

[OG_funguy]

turn off location services on your phone or even better turn off your phone completely when travelling to the spa. I realized almost a year later that even though I wasn't using google maps to get to the spa it was still tracking my location. I had history of all my driving trips to the spa.

You're absolutely right...caught me by surprise one day...I wrote a thread about it

 

[Poontang Fan]

As we kick off another year, I thought it would be helpful to talk about the lessons we learned from our hobby experience. I've listed a few below to kick things off...

1. Set a budget and don't spend more than you can afford. Over time, your list of 'regulars' will grow. You don't want to be spending your rent money or kid's education on hobbying.

2. Have an escape plan in case you don't like what you see...e.g. have a name of an MPA working on another day, so if necessary, you can pretend to ask for that other MPA instead.

3. We all want to save money but don't haggle and don't be cheap. All these ladies talk to each other and you don't want to be labeled as a cheap ass. At a minimum, pay 'market' rates.

4. If you don't want your car caught on camera, park further away and walk there. Some guys even turn off their phone while driving there and leave it in the car too.

5. Get to know the owners...if the owner is to your liking, have sessions with her (less clock watching, private appts, etc.). Plus, they will let you come during lockdowns

6. Don't tell MPAs you know about this site (most are worried you will write something about them and will be more restrictive).

7. If you really like an MPA, get her contact info before she disappears one day.

8. Take reviews here with a grain of salt as some guys like to embellish or may have different tastes than you.

9. Don't over rely on the reviews here and go exploring on your own. I found most of my faves this way.

Sound advice for anyone who enjoys the hobby.

 

[slickness]

turn off location services on your phone or even better turn off your phone completely when travelling to the spa. I realized almost a year later that even though I wasn't using google maps to get to the spa it was still tracking my location. I had history of all my driving trips to the spa.

Most times I Would put a random location close to the spa and park further away.

 

[ppc]

Did the wife use Find my Phone while you were in session?

Also the gps has the recent place too . You need to delete it as well.

 

[cupcrazy]

Also the gps has the recent place too . You need to delete it as well.

when i enter the address on the GPS, I deliberately enter the wrong address number. Lets say the spa is located at 30 Wilmont avenue, I would type in 26 Wilmont avenue instead. You know 30 wilmot is within the vacinity but it can't track you are actually going to the spa or whatever.

 

[rxxxryan]

Most times I Would put a random location close to the spa and park further away.

best to just turn off location history or even turn off the phone

 

[rxxxryan]

Did the wife use Find my Phone while you were in session?

lol no ...luckily I realized it on my own

 

[sy barite]

some good tips here.

I only have cash in my pocket when I walk into a spa, no i.d.. Leave the wallet hidden in car and as already mentioned, always park a ways away. I've also always used the trick of knowing an attendant who is NOT there that day so I can ask for her if I don't like who I see. They know what you're up to, but it saves face for both of you. I actually keep a rough schedule of my favourite places on my burner phone, built up over time.

 

[Deleted member 64273]

Don't get too enamoured with MPAs. If they do something with you, then they're doing it with others too. It's a business after all. Do your thinking with your head and not with your heart or dick. Avoid that rabbit hole and don't fall in.

On the note about getting to know owners, I'd say be careful there too. Owners care more about their business and money more than the average MPA and will say and do anything to get you hooked.

 

[luvnewpussy]

If your going to see a indie or agency girl. Make sure you have a reason "why" your at a hotel or apartment , just incase you bump into someone on your way in or out.

Hey xxx what are you doing here ?
Answer...ahhhhhhhhhhhh

 

[OG_funguy]

If your going to see a indie or agency girl. Make sure you have a reason "why" your at a hotel or apartment , just incase you bump into someone on your way in or out.

Hey xxx what are you doing here ?
Answer...ahhhhhhhhhhhh

Yeah, this is a good one...can probably apply to spas as well in case you run into someone you know. "Hey Joe, nice running into you, do you come here for an RMT quality massage too "

 

[curvluvr]

As we kick off another year, I thought it would be helpful to talk about the lessons we learned from our hobby experience. I've listed a few below to kick things off...

1. Set a budget and don't spend more than you can afford. Over time, your list of 'regulars' will grow. You don't want to be spending your rent money or kid's education on hobbying.

2. Have an escape plan in case you don't like what you see...e.g. have a name of an MPA working on another day, so if necessary, you can pretend to ask for that other MPA instead.

3. We all want to save money but don't haggle and don't be cheap. All these ladies talk to each other and you don't want to be labeled as a cheap ass. At a minimum, pay 'market' rates.

4. If you don't want your car caught on camera, park further away and walk there. Some guys even turn off their phone while driving there and leave it in the car too.

5. Get to know the owners...if the owner is to your liking, have sessions with her (less clock watching, private appts, etc.). Plus, they will let you come during lockdowns

6. Don't tell MPAs you know about this site (most are worried you will write something about them and will be more restrictive).

7. If you really like an MPA, get her contact info before she disappears one day.

8. Take reviews here with a grain of salt as some guys like to embellish or may have different tastes than you.

9. Don't over rely on the reviews here and go exploring on your own. I found most of my faves this way.

Some of these are obvious, but I definitely made note of 2 and 7.
There was one MPA that became my fav faster than any fav I've had. I didn't ask for her contact, and she disappeared before I could get a third session.
Thanks.

 

[OG_funguy]

Some of these are obvious, but I definitely made note of 2 and 7.
There was one MPA that became my fav faster than any fav I've had. I didn't ask for her contact, and she disappeared before I could get a third session.
Thanks.

That's also happened to me a couple of times already...luckily one of them re-surfaced but the others are long gone now

 

[hangul99]

Do not have your cell number anywhere in your Facebook profile. I've never entered mine but a number of times i've had an MPA give me their number and sometime later when I'm on Facebook on my phone their profiles come up as friend suggestions

If you have your number tied to your profile you'll come up as a suggestion for them. Depending on your security settings you could be exposed.

 

[cupcrazy]

Do not have your cell number anywhere in your Facebook profile. I've never entered mine but a number of times i've had an MPA give me their number and sometime later when I'm on Facebook on my phone their profiles come up as friend suggestions

If you have your number tied to your profile you'll come up as a suggestion for them. Depending on your security settings you could be exposed.

I managed to find current several MPA photos on wechat, online via their phone numbers. No, I won't post their pics here to protect their privacy.

As for getting the contact, the best is to see your favourite asap so that they will remember you. I managed to get numbers in the first session. You have to basically have to give the MPA incentive to give you the phone number in the first session (i.e. cutting off the middle man in order to save the mpas from commissions).

 

[hangul99]

I managed to find current several MPA photos on wechat, online via their phone numbers. No, I won't post their pics here to protect their privacy.

As for getting the contact, the best is to see your favourite asap so that they will remember you. I managed to get numbers in the first session. You have to basically have to give the MPA incentive to give you the phone number in the first session (i.e. cutting off the middle man in order to save the mpas from commissions).

I typically have no issues getting numbers. Im just careful who i share my info with.