She wanted Canadian citizenship. And also, she saw in me a genuine personality. I might not be prize-winning, but I speak my mind and girls ABSOLUTELY LOVE that in a man. The one quality I would suggest men display towards women is genuine honesty. Most people lie and when girls meet a guy that isn't afraid to tell the truth, they are severely drawn to that.
For example, my wife was terrified of dark skinned people. When she told me, she was nervous that I might get upset with her attitude. But I didn't. I told her that Blacks are dangerous and Indians are just smelly because their food spices stink. She laughed and felt so relieved that I agreed with her and didn't scold her for telling the truth.
Also, she adored my hatred for government and my willingness to do anything to push back against government over-reach. You see, her grandfather was murdered by the Chinese government, so she would never admire someone who preached left-wing diatribes and promoted the power of the state. Things like that.
As I said before, if you preach left-wing, Commie-loving BS, Chinese girls from the mainland will hate you.
If you think it's OK for men to dress as women and enter female washroom facilities, Chinese girls from the mainland will hate you. If you think small businesses should be lockdown while Walmart and Costco are allowed to open to the thousands, Chinese girls from the mainland will hate you.
If you think blacks and hispanics should get advanced standing when applying to university, at the expense of harder working Chinese students who have better grades, then Chinese girls from the mainland will hate you.