I don't know if this seems a bit personal but I just found out one of my classmates who I chatted with a lot recently mention she did sex work before getting her life back together.
It's a bit strange to find out anyone you know who left the SW industry.
She later called me and mentioned how she had a friendship with a married client. Where she ended due to her not feeling like a grown married man should be who she has as a friend.
I later found out she used to be in a spa, which surprised me since I used to go to spas more frequently before. I got to find out where she told me she was like one of the few Asians working at the spa as she said there were a mix of races but only 4 Asians. She mentions a lot of them used drugs a lot and she didn't.
She kept her boundaries but ended up giving in due to pressure by the clients. It kinda changes my view on how we try to ask girls for extras and mention how some girls would make an exception for some people and not for others. Like the idea of finding a girl who was restrictive, and when she lets you do FS, people would be running rumours and spreading that they are now a FS worker when they didn't feel ready.
It's honestly the first time, I got to genuinely know someone as a friend before finding out.
I am wondering, is this usually true for people who leave, with all this regret?
It's a bit strange to find out anyone you know who left the SW industry.
She later called me and mentioned how she had a friendship with a married client. Where she ended due to her not feeling like a grown married man should be who she has as a friend.
I later found out she used to be in a spa, which surprised me since I used to go to spas more frequently before. I got to find out where she told me she was like one of the few Asians working at the spa as she said there were a mix of races but only 4 Asians. She mentions a lot of them used drugs a lot and she didn't.
She kept her boundaries but ended up giving in due to pressure by the clients. It kinda changes my view on how we try to ask girls for extras and mention how some girls would make an exception for some people and not for others. Like the idea of finding a girl who was restrictive, and when she lets you do FS, people would be running rumours and spreading that they are now a FS worker when they didn't feel ready.
It's honestly the first time, I got to genuinely know someone as a friend before finding out.
I am wondering, is this usually true for people who leave, with all this regret?