Will visiting a MPA help reset and reinvigorate your life or mess it up more..

[krayjee]

Thanks for the reply Krayjee - when you say "hooked" I guess you refer to the sensual and erotic feeling that you can only get from MPAs and not your wife/SO, therefore you will always feel something is missing at home?

Yes.. When I first started hobbying I thought this hobby is only for lonely guys who couldn't get any dates , stressed out middle aged business men and divorcees . Later on I found out it was for all types of men whether single, married , young or old. I was more surprised when I see a few young good looking guys in their very early 20s some of whom have beautiful girl friends and older guys in their 80s coming regularly to E&M while I was helping out at the reception for a few weeks. This hobby is a great stress reliever but very addictive so it is very important to know your limits.
I also found out semi legit is more addictive than the holistic full service places where you tend to get so many after cum remorses. Semi legit spas gave me more value for my money and chances of having after cum remorse is very very slim at good semi legit spas.

 

[Ursus]

But not obsessed psychos .

That's the only gear I have with escorts.

Really though, I hate the catch-22 with sex-workers. It actually shows their self-centered attitudes. An escort calls me obsessed if I see her too often but also gets upset if I book another girl over her. At that point, I tell the girl to fuck off and stop being a dumb cunt. I tend to get banned often, as a result.

 

[snoopdoggie]

Will eating at MCD improve your health?

Answer: Just like visiting sex-workers, of course NO!

Why do you say eating at McDonald's won't improve your health? Sure it will. It can prevent you from dying of starvation.
As for the addiction issue, everybody is different. Some people can get addicted, some people won't. It depends on how you are able to handle it. It's just like alcohol. Some people get addicted to it, some people don't.

 

[Jmac]

hobbying help me stop masturbating. I started off once a month, than kept getting great sessions with different girls and got hooked on and did like 4-5 sessions a month. Luckily I had a couple bad sessions and real life started to get busy that I slowed back down and started repeating with those great session mpa's. When I first started, I used to see every other fancy dressing hot girl on the street and think they must be mpa and how I'd like to get a bs from her. Eventually it got easier to skip a couple weeks here and there and telling yourself, I might go next week.

Disclaimer, I don't go to Premier spas for actual massages. I go to semi-legit massages only when I actually need a massage.

Plus, (to my young bulls) get your reps in with fine girls now, so when you find a SO you'll impress.

 

[Ursus]

hobbying help me stop masturbating. I started off once a month, than kept getting great sessions with different girls and got hooked on and did like 4-5 sessions a month. Luckily I had a couple bad sessions and real life started to get busy that I slowed back down and started repeating with those great session mpa's. When I first started, I used to see every other fancy dressing hot girl on the street and think they must be mpa and how I'd like to get a bs from her. Eventually it got easier to skip a couple weeks here and there and telling yourself, I might go next week.

Disclaimer, I don't go to Premier spas for actual massages. I go to semi-legit massages only when I actually need a massage.

Plus, (to my young bulls) get your reps in with fine girls now, so when you find a SO you'll impress.

No need to impress. Professional athletes - who look much better and likely perform much better than an average guy - get left all the time once their careers are over. To think that anything you do will help keep a woman is to think in error. Women are takers. Once they get all your resources, they move onto their next victim. Plus, sex is a woman's payment to me for all the stuff I do for her. No need to impress someone when they are giving you payment for something they owe you.

 

[Hangdai]

hobbying help me stop masturbating. .

You say that as if it's bad or something?

I still Wack off 2 times a day, even on days I visit the ladies.

Always been that way , in my teens, my 20's, 30's , until now.

You know what they say, practice makes perfect.

Only side effect is, I'm going blind , lol.

 

[Dirty Old Man]

I also found out semi legit is more addictive than the holistic full service place

To me, semi-legits are all about the thrill of the chase... figuring out the girl's boundary and pushing it.

 

[Jmac]

You say that as if it's bad or something?

I still Wack off 2 times a day, even on days I visit the ladies.

Always been that way , in my teens, my 20's, 30's , until now.

You know what they say, practice makes perfect.

Only side effect is, I'm going blind , lol.

My commitment to No Fap has made each orgasm explosive and amazing. Plus I used to be the same way in Uni. So much so that I ended up getting content with my hand instead of a girl.

I may fap one out in the near future but I don't get the irresistible urges as much as when I see sexy woman in sun dresses.

 

[Ursus]

I regularly masturbate to Daniella's pictures.

 

[erectboy]

Thanks all for the replies! I guess self awareness and control is a big thing if one wants to get into hobbying..

 

[IronHearted]

I regularly masturbate to Daniella's pictures.

Subsitute "Daniella" with "tranny" and you get the truth.

 

[Massagie888]

Just wondering, if one is ultra stressed from work, family and lack of affection because everyone is in the same pressure cooker situation, will visiting a MPA help re-charge your drained soul? Or will I just get hooked to the ecstasy type of feeling of fantasy world and go down to the abyss and never recover?

Honestly dude dont get into banging whores, it is one slippery slope.

If you have an addictive personality and on top of that are a baller its a very bad mix.

You end up needing to want to fuck and try new girls constantly to chase that dopamine rush, constantly thinking about the next pussy or "fix". You also repeat your favs so much they become "girlfriends". Like literally I would be "dating" a few popular sps at a time. Lines blur, and shit just gets very complicated and confusing. I would never pay an sp for her time in the real world, I know some chinese men that do, but I would actually treat them like a real gf, dinners, small thoughtful gifts (never over $100), bring them lunch.

Obvviously I understand Im not really dating these girls but its a very high quality fake, and it actually makes the sex even crazier and intimate, and some of them are actually cool. Dont get me wrong they are all money hungry whores and as soon as they use you up you will be discarded lol.

But the biggest problem with this hobby is its the exact same as porn addicts, you constantly are chasing dopamine highs, and is one of the reasons sex addicts like ursula bang trannys to up to the "next level".

This hobby also ruined normal "good girls"/civilians for me. You will think banging any normal girl is so boring it will be hard to finish, as most of them are so shit at sex lol

 

[Massagie888]

That's the only gear I have with escorts.

Really though, I hate the catch-22 with sex-workers. It actually shows their self-centered attitudes. An escort calls me obsessed if I see her too often but also gets upset if I book another girl over her. At that point, I tell the girl to fuck off and stop being a dumb cunt. I tend to get banned often, as a result.

Its because you are ugly.

I'm an obsessive person no whore ever called me that. I have seen one girl 12 days straight, and another girl 2X in one day. They usually smile and chuckle a bit but thats at they are always happy to see my wallet. I guess they realize I could do a lot better than them, but im a terrible person inside lol

 

[Jmac]

Another thing to note regarding OP.

If you go into a session with a well reviews mpa and get the lower end of the ymmv meter, you man be left with an urge to return sooner that later.

Had that happen a couple times where I didn't leave a tip for a session since it was not deserving imo and did a return with a different mpa in a short period of time.