Question Why is your regular your regular

[Deleted member 101953]

You will not believe it unless and until it happens to you. They may be "professionals" but they are also human, as are we. It has not happened to me, but as others relate here I have made some very good connections with SWs, to the point that I would really enjoy their company even if no sex was involved. Respecting and treating people well often (but not always) pays off.

Well, if an MPA happens to fall in love with a client, she should keep that to herself..
Just can't see an MPA saying to a client.."You know John Doe1, you're the only one who can make me cum and I just love being with you...I want you to have my babies cause im starting to fall in love with you" Nah I just can't..lol

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Well, if an MPA happens to fall in love with a client, she should keep that to herself..
Just can't see an MPA saying to a client.."You know John Doe1, you're the only one who can make me cum and I just love being with you...I want you to have my babies cause im starting to fall in love with you" Nah I just can't..lol

I think if love happens the only only way it will work is if you both accept being polyamorous. Or, and I do not know if there is a word for this, you accept a situation where both partners are committed to each over emotionally but not sexually. I have only heard of one case where a client persuaded an SW to leave the business and it worked out for both of them. In that case he agreed to pay for her to advance her education and she trained to do different work.

 

[Deleted member 101953]

I think if love happens the only only way it will work is if you both accept being polyamorous. Or, and I do not know if there is a word for this, you accept a situation where both partners are committed to each over emotionally but not sexually. I have only heard of one case where a client persuaded an SW to leave the business and it worked out for both of them. In that case he agreed to pay for her to advance her education and she trained to do different work.

Well in that case, that would make perfect sense..
Do you know if those two actually got married and started a family together?

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Well in that case, that would make perfect sense..
Do you know if those two actually got married and started a family together?

I will have to ask my SW friend (who told me about her former coworker) about children, but they did get married.

 

[Petron-us]

I think if love happens the only only way it will work is if you both accept being polyamorous. Or, and I do not know if there is a word for this, you accept a situation where both partners are committed to each over emotionally but not sexually. I have only heard of one case where a client persuaded an SW to leave the business and it worked out for both of them. In that case he agreed to pay for her to advance her education and she trained to do different work.

I have experienced that I could fall in love with a girl hanging around me while having an actual girlfriend, so even in the strict definition of polyamouous, actually being in love multiple times & not just fucking multple partners, I am certain we have that capacity.

I have even fucked two different girls, for both of whom I had genuine emotional connection.

If you are a frequent client, emotionally available & of course physically intimate, it would be surprising if there were NOT a few who developed feelings. Most clients, lets face it, are not that amazing company.

 

[luv2cumdump]

My regular let's me creampie her and she loves being filled up

 

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[Petron-us]

My regular let's me creampie her and she loves being filled up

Unprotected intercourse with a sex worker ! Wow you are living the dream.

 

[fisher226]

My regular let's me creampie her and she loves being filled up

Is your regular your wife/girlfriend/fuck buddy?

 

[Sajam Enjoyer]

Don't have any regulars anymore but the ones I did have, it was mainly about the attitude. If I felt like we were having a decent time together and she never tried to take me for granted and/or squeeze more money out of me, I would come back regularly. It can be from someone restrictive too, I've been addicted to going back to a girl who only gave hand release because she was just that good at what she does.

Haven't seen my former regulars in a long time, some is their fault (service and attitude went down), some were my fault and I burned the bridge.

 

[Petron-us]

Is your regular your wife/girlfriend/fuck buddy?

That’s not a regular.

 

[Darke Steele]

One word......Chemistry. My weekly fave likes what I'm bringing to the table. I appreciate her, and she appreciates and tells me "I'll do anything you want. I want to be your slave." And, she does. She's married with kids. I'm married with kids and we talk about them all the time. Not about love at all. Just thorough enjoyment of adult time.
Doesn't get better than that in my book.

 

[Spawarrior99]

I think you kind of nailed it when you talked about the connection. We can all tell when someone is going the extra mile on our behalf. It is earned though out of mutual respect and consideration. Anyone who thinks they can be demanding just because they are waving money around will likely get the "work to rule" experience.

I think it comes down to how many boxes are checked off and in what order of importance to you. That's how someone finds their gem. The more boxes checked especially the highest priority ones and you found your girl. But damnit!...some days you want The Keg, and other days Ruth's Chris. Plenty of great options.

It's all about the connection like you say.

 

[Petron-us]

Don't have any regulars anymore but the ones I did have, it was mainly about the attitude. If I felt like we were having a decent time together and she never tried to take me for granted and/or squeeze more money out of me, I would come back regularly. It can be from someone restrictive too, I've been addicted to going back to a girl who only gave hand release because she was just that good at what she does.

Haven't seen my former regulars in a long time, some is their fault (service and attitude went down), some were my fault and I burned the bridge.

You don’t have regulars because of those bad experiences?

 

[Spawarrior99]

I think like all you gentlemen I shop for variety but I always return to my regular. Why? Why is your regular your regular?
For me, my regular is a nice person and we connect. She's a little over weight and every year she gains a little more, she has nice breasts, she's not young and getting older as I am. But she's always happy to see me and we connect when having sex.

If you shop for variety but keep going back to your regular, are you really shopping for variety?

 

[Spawarrior99]

I have experienced that I could fall in love with a girl hanging around me while having an actual girlfriend, so even in the strict definition of polyamouous, actually being in love multiple times & not just fucking multple partners, I am certain we have that capacity.

I have even fucked two different girls, for both of whom I had genuine emotional connection.

If you are a frequent client, emotionally available & of course physically intimate, it would be surprising if there were NOT a few who developed feelings. Most clients, lets face it, are not that amazing company.

You fucked 2 girls. I applaud you. How many spa girls have you fucked BBFS?
Since you are from Brampton and have nothing to say about, Brampton.. hmmmmm

 

[Sajam Enjoyer]

You don’t have regulars because of those bad experiences?

For the most part. About half my former regulars starting taking advantage of me and the other half it was more my fault of making promises I couldn't keep

 

[xtc27]

You fucked 2 girls. I applaud you. How many spa girls have you fucked BBFS?
Since you are from Brampton and have nothing to say about, Brampton.. hmmmmm

The dude already mocked guys who do BBFS… yer reading comprehension is very low. Lay off the sauce b4 u post all this stupid shit.

 

[Brewsky]

Because I get extras for free

 

[Brewsky]

Well in that case, that would make perfect sense..
Do you know if those two actually got married and started a family together?

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