Question Why is your regular your regular

[Peter Dick Envy]

So there was one girl at a certain spa who I thought I was really my type... but her service was ..... like.. very hesitant in many ways...
and during one session I told her.... that her customers will get a strong vibe from her that she really doesnt like doing BJs and other such things that guys come here looking for.
If you want this job then you should try to make your customers..happy... she just maybe didnt know how so much ,,
so I sent her this video and told her to watch it...

and also this one

and she was mad at me the next time I saw her.... even refused to see me...
I stayed away for like 3-4 weeks... and then I went back and she actually was busy with another guy waiting... never happened before...
I spoke to her after she finished the first guy and she was all so happy and giggly and kissed me a lot and she told me ... come back at 830... and I said,,OK..
when I got back she told me that she watched those videos and a few others like it on Youtube .. and she wanted to thank me...
she did her first BBJ ever on me (so she said)...that night... and I was there with her till like 11pm....(place closed at 9) she was so happy that she was enjoying really sucking cock and we spent like just an hour plus in 69 with her absolutely devouring all of me til she got out of breath
again and again..
she is still my regular and now has a nicer car and other things that make her happy as she is so busy compared to what she used to be...
She thanks me every chance she gets... and I also tip her better than I used to...
not going to name names... I have given out many names of great ladies here over the time and hardly ever have I gotten guys to be nice enough to tell me their gems,,, so I will not share as much as used to...
I still get many random guys DMing me and asking for good recommendations... very often.. sometimes I oblige...
this one I am keeping ... I know many guys do the same... understand. I have been more give than take... until it starts to even out..I will prob share less.

I can totally relate to this.

It is great she finally embraced your ‘guidance’.

 

[eyeswideshut]

Is there a thread for the stories that dint end well

No specific thread, but lots of stories. There seems to be a new one every couple months or so. Seems to be a lesson that everyone has to learn on there own

Had a so called regular..Not anymore since she now views me as a piece of shit..
I broke her promise and also in a way, stabbed her in the back which she must feel deeply disappointed
Karma's going to get me real bad later this year..I just know it...That is unless, fate happens to find me a brand new spanking gem this year haha..

So enjoy your fav regular as much as you can cause the shit doesn't last..and if so, it's temporarily

What happened?

I make mistakes. Life is learning.

Too ashamed to explain..Look friend, it doesn't really make much of a difference..The show's over..Trust me i'm the last person she ever wants to see again
I'm just looking fwd to hobbying more this summer since I seldomly hobby a year ago..Guess my sex drive is somewhat decreasing due to age..A part of life I guess..

Probably get a lot of interest if you do decide to tell the story. You've given so few details so far that you could likely get away with creating a new account just to tell it (if you wanted more discretion). I'd definitely read it

 

[MalikFarush]

From my personal experience, this isn't the place to find love. Best of luck to you.

It was a joke

 

[Chris Rockman]

It was a joke

Or, One Hour of Love

 

[Hsbill]

She is your regular because you are her regular. You know exactly what to expect and she knows exactly what to do to get your going. Good service comes from knowing what the client wants, so it is also much easier for your regular to please you.

Connection helps, if that's the relationship you want to have. On the otherhand, if it is strictly a service oriented relationship than connection doesn't really matter, especially if there is no time when you can chit chat.

For me, I like a decent massage beforehand, so connection is also important. My other regular I am just there for her service so there is never a chance to chit chat.

My regular regular just came back from vacay and she couldn't wait to me about it while giving me a massage.

On the otherhand, she is going to do dirty deeds with you, so you don't want it to be like you buddy either.

Maybe you regular is kinda like your side chick/booty call ? You show up whenever but you know she is busy when you are not there either.

 

[JamesBondage]

One of them is my regular because she's available 24/7. Sometimes when it's 4am and you're drunk you need a good bbbjcimsw. The simple things in life.

 

[Spawarrior99]

I think like all you gentlemen I shop for variety but I always return to my regular. Why? Why is your regular your regular?
For me, my regular is a nice person and we connect. She's a little over weight and every year she gains a little more, she has nice breasts, she's not young and getting older as I am. But she's always happy to see me and we connect when having sex.

There was a fantastic movie made called "Heat". The complicated relationships of DeNiro, Pacino, Kilmer and Tom Sizemore says a lot about how things can develop.
Not considering that POS "waynegrow", life has a funny way. waynegrow......
Sometimes I feel the energy of the spa girl, maybe a regular, maybe a new girl, time will tell at that little ole love shack.
But regulars are great. Girl has a connection with you as others have said,
you go out and meet at other places. Cooliio.....
The term "regular", definitely needs a consensus opinion. as to what constitutes being a regular?
any thoughts?