Well this thread kind of took off. I won't say any more about the session since I'm working things out with the spa, but it should be pretty clear from my limited comments that loose lips sank my ship. I'll address some of the other comments though.
I don't tell girls that I write reviews, or try to dangle a carrot in front of them for better service (other than, you know, *that* carrot). But I've never tried to hide my identity from them either. If I post a review it's usually the next day, and they are detailed enough for a girl to figure out who I am. That was never intentional, it just never occurred to me to try to be more anonymous. Is it good or bad that girls know me? That's a big topic worthy of it's own thread. The short answer is that it's a double edged sword.
As to why anyone cares what people post here, TERB may be bigger than this site, but massage reviews are a small part of it. A dedicated massage board with 200 active users should be more relevant to a spa than a board with 1000 users but only 50 who post in the massage subsection.
Also, my input here was important enough for someone to decide to cock block me for revenge. Then when I posted about it, the spa responded within a few hours to offer me a full session credit, not just the door fee. Pretty good for someone who "isn’t anything special to make a fuss about" and "doesn’t have much influence". Imagine what they would do for someone who's actually important.
P.S. For the record I've never publicly named or confirmed any of the participants in this tale.
I don't tell girls that I write reviews, or try to dangle a carrot in front of them for better service (other than, you know, *that* carrot). But I've never tried to hide my identity from them either. If I post a review it's usually the next day, and they are detailed enough for a girl to figure out who I am. That was never intentional, it just never occurred to me to try to be more anonymous. Is it good or bad that girls know me? That's a big topic worthy of it's own thread. The short answer is that it's a double edged sword.
As to why anyone cares what people post here, TERB may be bigger than this site, but massage reviews are a small part of it. A dedicated massage board with 200 active users should be more relevant to a spa than a board with 1000 users but only 50 who post in the massage subsection.
Also, my input here was important enough for someone to decide to cock block me for revenge. Then when I posted about it, the spa responded within a few hours to offer me a full session credit, not just the door fee. Pretty good for someone who "isn’t anything special to make a fuss about" and "doesn’t have much influence". Imagine what they would do for someone who's actually important.
P.S. For the record I've never publicly named or confirmed any of the participants in this tale.
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