What do I do from here? Seeing an MPA outside the spa

[VinnyBulbarino]

Thanks for the tip. Great question- if I’m being honest, for now I would love to just recreate a session from the spa, but just on a king size bed.

I’m an intimacy kind of guy and really love the affection side of her services. If that turns into sex cool, if not that’s fine too.

Another note, she’s European (Italian) and grew up in Brampton not too far from where I grew up.

I kinda wanna see how far her enthusiasm goes.

Even though she never asked for any compensation for this outside activity - I do plan on giving her something (as I would if I saw her in the spa).

We meet tomorrow and I think we’re both excited as we haven’t seen each other in months.

Once you get “intimacy” involved, the lines get even more blurred (I’m speaking from first hand experience). Guys like us see intimacy and connection, women like her see vulnerability and loneliness, and she will exploit your needs. The fact that she came to you for money says it all. The “I miss you” and “come see me, you’re different than other guys” is all a sell. Not all pros are like this, some have genuine chemistry and connection, but they will not ask to borrow money.

I’d be wary of meeting up with her in a secluded setting, do coffee first, no sex, and see how it goes. Also have clear definitions of if she’s on the clock and expects to be compensated for her time, or if she’s hanging out with you on a personal level.

A friend of mine hung out with an SP outside of her working hours, and he paid her at the end of their time. She took huge offense to it, and felt that gesture really made her feel bad about herself. They never saw eachother again.

Hope this helps Brother

 

[boeing707]

There is a very old but relevant movie, I'd recommend watching. Made in 1930 in Weimar Germany, the movie "Die blaue Engesl / The blue angel" starring Marlene Dietrich tells the story of a professor who falls for an erotic dancer and his subsequent downfall. A more lighter movie on the same topic worthwhile watching is the 1963 comedy "Irma la Douce" with Jack Lemon.

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

There is a very old but relevant movie, I'd recommend watching. Made in 1930 in Weimar Germany, the movie "Die blaue Engesl / The blue angel" starring Marlene Dietrich tells the story of a professor who falls for an erotic dancer and his subsequent downfall. A more lighter movie on the same topic worthwhile watching is the 1963 comedy "Irma la Douce" with Jack Lemon.

It is good to get these movies before they have been edited by the Moral Majority.

 

[Kawailuvr]

This particular whore will be doing this to multiple guys bro , they are actors and whores in the end garbage human beigns !! Just pump and dump her she is trying to run game on you pal
Just look what you said she is leading you on than when you haven’t seen her for sometime she reaches out to get another payout for ya
I tell you what reach out to her and tell her you are happy to get together but she is picking up the tan and see how quick she ghosts you
Whore be whores bro

 

[RayHughston]

There is a very old but relevant movie, I'd recommend watching. Made in 1930 in Weimar Germany, the movie "Die blaue Engesl / The blue angel" starring Marlene Dietrich tells the story of a professor who falls for an erotic dancer and his subsequent downfall. A more lighter movie on the same topic worthwhile watching is the 1963 comedy "Irma la Douce" with Jack Lemon.

I just read the plot of this story, I’m definitely not trying to end up like that professor.

I’m a bit old fashioned in the sense that women have never been my purpose. I believe women are put on earth to be a helpmate to men.

Im a busy guy with work and my career and have always put that first, but occasionally could use help with intimacy and busting a nut.

What makes this scenario noteworthy is the level of enthusiasm from the MPA. I’m usually skeptical when it comes to dealing with women from this walk of life (and I still am), but I really don’t know what to expect from her.

She messages me last saying: “I hope you didn’t forget about me, please let me know if we’re still on for this weekend”

Then when I ask if she needs anything else for this session (leaving room for her to ask for money), she said “maybe some Prosecco, something bubbly, but just your company in the meanwhile is worth most”

she’s saying all the right things, we meet later today - this will be a developing story on this thread

 

[RayHughston]

This particular whore will be doing this to multiple guys bro , they are actors and whores in the end garbage human beigns !! Just pump and dump her she is trying to run game on you pal
Just look what you said she is leading you on than when you haven’t seen her for sometime she reaches out to get another payout for ya
I tell you what reach out to her and tell her you are happy to get together but she is picking up the tan and see how quick she ghosts you
Whore be whores bro

I don’t mind paying, sometimes you want to pay them to leave or just be cool.

I wouldn’t call them “garbage human beings”, as they serve a purpose.

You sound like a victim if I’m being honest lol

Maybe you had some bad experiences in your past?

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

I don’t mind paying, sometimes you want to pay them to leave or just be cool.

I wouldn’t call them “garbage human beings”, as they serve a purpose.

You sound like a victim if I’m being honest lol

Maybe you had some bad experiences in your past?

it would be one aspect. Seems gratuitously nasty, Maybe side of the fence you want to be on. I would not believe that either.

 

[boeing707]

These are women that work 7 days a week from 10 to 10, having to put up the same smile and pretending to be excited, over and over again. Day in, day out, no break, not even while we have Christmas dinner. The rest of the time is spent getting grocery shopping done, cooking at 8am in the morning, talking to family back home at 11pm and getting sleep. They have the same needs and wants that any other woman has, they want to look pretty, have nice clothes, etc. Almost all of them will have a story. Whether it is a bad marriage, abuse, a failing business in China that needs financial support or children that they want to put through school. Yes there are days when they make a lot of money, sometimes there are quiet days when they make no money or barely enough to cover the uber to work. And a lot of money goes back to China. If they are lucky, they have a good workplace with a boss that cares, if they are unlucky, they are pushed to have sex to get more customers. And if we are foolish enough to become obsessed over a girl and spend thousands of dollars, well I for one can't blame the girl. I find most girls are kind when you get to talk. I find calling them "garbage" very objectionable.

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

These are women that work 7 days a week from 10 to 10, having to put up the same smile and pretending to be excited, over and over again. Day in, day out, no break, not even while we have Christmas dinner. The rest of the time is spent getting grocery shopping done, cooking at 8am in the morning, talking to family back home at 11pm and getting sleep. They have the same needs and wants that any other woman has, they want to look pretty, have nice clothes, etc. Almost all of them will have a story. Whether it is a bad marriage, abuse, a failing business in China that needs financial support or children that they want to put through school. Yes there are days when they make a lot of money, sometimes there are quiet days when they make no money or barely enough to cover the uber to work. And a lot of money goes back to China. If they are lucky, they have a good workplace with a boss that cares, if they are unlucky, they are pushed to have sex to get more customers. And if we are foolish enough to become obsessed over a girl and spend thousands of dollars, well I for one can't blame the girl. I find most girls are kind when you get to talk. I find calling them "garbage" very objectionable.

Yes objectional. Do not fool yourself the money is larger than that. I work Christmas too sometimes but not rewarded the same. A good day which can be many not Christmas day money is a week of the average obscene amount. The cashcows are the best.

 

[VinnyBulbarino]

I just read the plot of this story, I’m definitely not trying to end up like that professor.

I’m a bit old fashioned in the sense that women have never been my purpose. I believe women are put on earth to be a helpmate to men.

Im a busy guy with work and my career and have always put that first, but occasionally could use help with intimacy and busting a nut.

What makes this scenario noteworthy is the level of enthusiasm from the MPA. I’m usually skeptical when it comes to dealing with women from this walk of life (and I still am), but I really don’t know what to expect from her.

She messages me last saying: “I hope you didn’t forget about me, please let me know if we’re still on for this weekend”

Then when I ask if she needs anything else for this session (leaving room for her to ask for money), she said “maybe some Prosecco, something bubbly, but just your company in the meanwhile is worth most”

she’s saying all the right things, we meet later today - this will be a developing story on this thread

I wouldn’t leave it to her to ask for the money. In a situation like this, I would be very transparent and ask if she’s expecting to be compensated for her time. Ask in a classy way but be direct.

I agree with you too, women are not garbage, they are people, regardless of their profession. Treating women with respect yields the best results.

Looking for genuine intimacy in this hobby is hard to find, it’s the pros job to make us feel wanted and connected. Don’t be naive, these women have lives outside of the 4 walls they work within. Someone once said getting together/dating a pro outside of their work opens up a can of worms. Wishing you the best today Brother.

 

[Enterthedragon47]

What’s the worst that can happen? Honestly asking so I can prepare

Did you ever see the movie Fatal Attraction?

 

[Spawarrior99]

it would be one aspect. Seems gratuitously nasty, Maybe side of the fence you want to be on. I would not believe that either.

WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU KNOW ROOKIE?
HUH?
SPEAK UP DUDE, YOU FUCK WHORES ON THE SUNSET STRIP IN YOUR CAR? PICK UP HIGH SCHOO GIRLS IN YOUR
ROOT BEER BROWN 56 CORVETTE, FIBERGLASS BODY 3 SPEED THAT DOES WHELLIES TILL 2ND GEAR?
YOU FUCK GIRLS ON THE BEACH?
YOU SUCK A CRACK HOES PUSSY WHILE SHE IS SUCKING ON THAT GLASS PIPE?
VINNY - I ASK YOU AGAIN.

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU KNOW ROOKIE?
HUH?

Sorry I am just not a mental halfwit. Respectfully speaking. You can be funny.

 

[Spawarrior99]

Sorry I am just not a mental halfwit. Respectfully speaking. You can be funny.

sorry... I'm sorry that I tried racing my RD 400, in a parking lot and ended up over the cliff.. straight over the handlebars...doing 70 mph.
somersault few times while i went over the cliff, 200 feet down, a tree saved my life.... or like that party in Hollywood when my car wouldn't start.
or that time on Persian way next to LAX, street racing the corvette - loved that car!
some MPA's are like Hondas... others, like corvettes.
or that time when i was rock climbing over near Charlies place.
and I'm sorry I never got that Persian honeys number from moonwalking spa when I had the chance -
that luscious hair of hers - that fucking great ass, and those 36 DD's -
Kind like Mandys body. but a tad bigger....
love those 36-24-36 girls - .gotta have some meat on the bone - wouldn't you say?
past gf's. fucking under the blanket on Manhattan Beach.. halfway between the ocean and the strand. at night, COPS ain't going to bother with ya.
bobs ur uncle.....

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

sorry... I'm sorry that I tried racing my RD 400, in a parking lot and ended up over the cliff.. straight over the handlebars...doing 70 mph.
somersault few times while i went over the cliff, 200 feet down, a tree saved my life.... or like that party in Hollywood when my car wouldn't start.
or that time on Persian way next to LAX, street racing the corvette - loved that car!
some MPA's are like Hondas... others, like corvettes.
or that time when i was rock climbing over near Charlies place.
and I'm sorry I never got that Persian honeys number from moonwalking spa when I had the chance -
that luscious hair of hers - that fucking great ass, and those 36 DD's -
this chick has body... and love those 36-24-36 girls - .gotta have some meat on the bone - wouldn't you say?

Are you alerting your community? Just saying. but yes i have a pedigree.

 

[RayHughston]

Update:

I arranged the meet up with the MPA yesterday for around 8pm. I get to the hotel early at around 7, she doesn’t come until 10. After apologies, we both cuddled up and caressed each other watching TV and drinking wine… just catching up for the lost time.

We never talked about expectations on the night or money at all. I took a risk there.

After about an hour of that, the touching got more intense and we moved from the living room and went to the bedroom.

Clothes went off, got carried away and had some great sex.

Before we took that step she said 2 things that made me laugh:

#1 I don’t usually do this and I don’t think I have condoms big enough for you.
#2 Do you do this to the other girls? (I think she meant from the spa). I shook my head no and continued.

She didn’t massage me at all, instead i got carried away and the Carpet got soaked. By 3AM she threw a towel on me cleaning me up and fell asleep with her head on my chest (snoring). At 4AM she wakes up, showers and comes back to bed and gets under the sheets. After she showers, I get up and do the same. We both cuddle next to each other under the sheets until 10AM, wrapped up in various positions holding and kissing each other. Really intimate. By 11AM after both being lazy watching TV in the bed in each others arms, we decide to go downstairs for breakfast. We get dressed and go downstairs, talk some more and return back to the room for some more cuddling and caressing.

She never asked for a dollar throughout this entire interaction.

we checked out the hotel early and I drive her home. We both agree we want to do this again.

After a few more kisses, I drop her off and went on my way. I gave her some money for her troubles without hesitation.

One of the most memorable nights I’ve had with a SP.

She was on her phone for a max 3 minutes during this entire encounter.

I’m glad things turned out the way they did.

 

[Sundance69]

Update:

I arranged the meet up with the MPA yesterday for around 8pm. I get to the hotel early at around 7, she doesn’t come until 10. After apologies, we both cuddled up and caressed each other watching TV and drinking wine… just catching up for the lost time.

We never talked about expectations on the night or money at all. I took a risk there.

After about an hour of that, the touching got more intense and we moved from the living room and went to the bedroom.

Clothes went off, got carried away and had some great sex.

Before we took that step she said 2 things that made me laugh:

#1 I don’t usually do this and I don’t think I have condoms big enough for you.
#2 Do you do this to the other girls? (I think she meant from the spa). I shook my head no and continued.

She didn’t massage me at all, instead i got carried away and the Carpet got soaked. By 3AM she threw a towel on me cleaning me up and fell asleep with her head on my chest (snoring). At 4AM she wakes up, showers and comes back to bed and gets under the sheets. After she showers, I get up and do the same. We both cuddle next to each other under the sheets until 10AM, wrapped up in various positions holding and kissing each other. Really intimate. By 11AM after both being lazy watching TV in the bed in each others arms, we decide to go downstairs for breakfast. We get dressed and go downstairs, talk some more and return back to the room for some more cuddling and caressing.

She never asked for a dollar throughout this entire interaction.

we checked out the hotel early and I drive her home. We both agree we want to do this again.

After a few more kisses, I drop her off and went on my way. I gave her some money for her troubles without hesitation.

One of the most memorable nights I’ve had with a SP.

She was on her phone for a max 3 minutes during this entire encounter.

I’m glad things turned out the way they did.

Great story, good news. Let us know about the next encounter.

 

[VinnyBulbarino]

Update:

I arranged the meet up with the MPA yesterday for around 8pm. I get to the hotel early at around 7, she doesn’t come until 10. After apologies, we both cuddled up and caressed each other watching TV and drinking wine… just catching up for the lost time.

We never talked about expectations on the night or money at all. I took a risk there.

After about an hour of that, the touching got more intense and we moved from the living room and went to the bedroom.

Clothes went off, got carried away and had some great sex.

Before we took that step she said 2 things that made me laugh:

#1 I don’t usually do this and I don’t think I have condoms big enough for you.
#2 Do you do this to the other girls? (I think she meant from the spa). I shook my head no and continued.

She didn’t massage me at all, instead i got carried away and the Carpet got soaked. By 3AM she threw a towel on me cleaning me up and fell asleep with her head on my chest (snoring). At 4AM she wakes up, showers and comes back to bed and gets under the sheets. After she showers, I get up and do the same. We both cuddle next to each other under the sheets until 10AM, wrapped up in various positions holding and kissing each other. Really intimate. By 11AM after both being lazy watching TV in the bed in each others arms, we decide to go downstairs for breakfast. We get dressed and go downstairs, talk some more and return back to the room for some more cuddling and caressing.

She never asked for a dollar throughout this entire interaction.

we checked out the hotel early and I drive her home. We both agree we want to do this again.

After a few more kisses, I drop her off and went on my way. I gave her some money for her troubles without hesitation.

One of the most memorable nights I’ve had with a SP.

She was on her phone for a max 3 minutes during this entire encounter.

I’m glad things turned out the way they did.

Sounds like a great night Brother, glad to got to experience it.

 

[Silence4long]

Update:

I arranged the meet up with the MPA yesterday for around 8pm. I get to the hotel early at around 7, she doesn’t come until 10. After apologies, we both cuddled up and caressed each other watching TV and drinking wine… just catching up for the lost time.

We never talked about expectations on the night or money at all. I took a risk there.

After about an hour of that, the touching got more intense and we moved from the living room and went to the bedroom.

Clothes went off, got carried away and had some great sex.

Before we took that step she said 2 things that made me laugh:

#1 I don’t usually do this and I don’t think I have condoms big enough for you.
#2 Do you do this to the other girls? (I think she meant from the spa). I shook my head no and continued.

She didn’t massage me at all, instead i got carried away and the Carpet got soaked. By 3AM she threw a towel on me cleaning me up and fell asleep with her head on my chest (snoring). At 4AM she wakes up, showers and comes back to bed and gets under the sheets. After she showers, I get up and do the same. We both cuddle next to each other under the sheets until 10AM, wrapped up in various positions holding and kissing each other. Really intimate. By 11AM after both being lazy watching TV in the bed in each others arms, we decide to go downstairs for breakfast. We get dressed and go downstairs, talk some more and return back to the room for some more cuddling and caressing.

She never asked for a dollar throughout this entire interaction.

we checked out the hotel early and I drive her home. We both agree we want to do this again.

After a few more kisses, I drop her off and went on my way. I gave her some money for her troubles without hesitation.

One of the most memorable nights I’ve had with a SP.

She was on her phone for a max 3 minutes during this entire encounter.

I’m glad things turned out the way they did.

Fun thread to read, man took the risk and got the reward! It was a sobering read in terms of being cautious and not being played but this story has had a happy ending... I think it's rare but a real connection is possible just want no strings attached

 

[homerun100]

Update:

I arranged the meet up with the MPA yesterday for around 8pm. I get to the hotel early at around 7, she doesn’t come until 10. After apologies, we both cuddled up and caressed each other watching TV and drinking wine… just catching up for the lost time.

We never talked about expectations on the night or money at all. I took a risk there.

After about an hour of that, the touching got more intense and we moved from the living room and went to the bedroom.

Clothes went off, got carried away and had some great sex.

Before we took that step she said 2 things that made me laugh:

#1 I don’t usually do this and I don’t think I have condoms big enough for you.
#2 Do you do this to the other girls? (I think she meant from the spa). I shook my head no and continued.

She didn’t massage me at all, instead i got carried away and the Carpet got soaked. By 3AM she threw a towel on me cleaning me up and fell asleep with her head on my chest (snoring). At 4AM she wakes up, showers and comes back to bed and gets under the sheets. After she showers, I get up and do the same. We both cuddle next to each other under the sheets until 10AM, wrapped up in various positions holding and kissing each other. Really intimate. By 11AM after both being lazy watching TV in the bed in each others arms, we decide to go downstairs for breakfast. We get dressed and go downstairs, talk some more and return back to the room for some more cuddling and caressing.

She never asked for a dollar throughout this entire interaction.

we checked out the hotel early and I drive her home. We both agree we want to do this again.

After a few more kisses, I drop her off and went on my way. I gave her some money for her troubles without hesitation.

One of the most memorable nights I’ve had with a SP.

She was on her phone for a max 3 minutes during this entire encounter.

I’m glad things turned out the way they did.

You overthought the entire thing. Ive never been with sps but ive been with strippers. They are definitely women with issues. Dont expect long term just enjoy it while it lasts. And stop being scared about a bunch of what ifs. Sounds like you have anxiety issues.