Was it love ????

[cjakes]

Hi,

I´m a good looking guy that have no problem to get girls in my home town. I´m young and good looking. Wént with a friend to patang 4 a week. The first night a took home a very good looking thai girl. She said to me that it was the first time in patong and before she worked in bankok in a CD store.

Anyway... I went down to patong for some fun and to **** a lot.. right

The 3 night a meet this girls again and we had very very very good sex.. normaly I **** 2 times... but with here it was 4-5 times.... the next night I asked here ?? shes doing this... she was so good looking and nice. She had almost the same story as any bar girl but, after this I could not see here lika bar girl... soon has some one was looking @ here I went crazy.

The last night I gave here 400 dollars 4 one night... she did not take it !!!!.. I did but it in here bag and said that if she wants I could take care of here son.

Know I have a lot of cash so for me giving 400 dollars every month is like taking a piss... the only thing I wanted is 4 here to go back to bankok and stay with here son... she said ok..

Now I got a mail from here telling me that she can´t go back and she doze not what any cash from me... she likes me very very and thats that.

Know I´m confused... she knows that we cant be together ever and I dont need any thing from her.

So guys have respect for this girls, there are reasons to every thing and some pride in this girls... will never ever do this again... but if u do repect is in order.

Some times I ask my self how in the hell did I ask her... if I did´n I could go down there again and agin and have lot of fun....

 

[?JD?]

I'll gladly send you my hard luck story, if you wouldn't mind sending your pissed away funds to me, I'll be happy to send you email. :cheergal:

You have to spend it on something, why not something worth while?

 

[? ?? ?r??? s??rs]

Hi!

Its allways hard to tell if the tg`s want your money or if they really like you. I think most of the times its the combination of that 2 things. If they dont take your money, I guess they have a plan for not doing it. Mybe she want to be your gf, and hope to get married and move to your country.
As far as I know, in thai-culture the girls try to get involved with men with good economy. In their eyes, a man that can help them out finansialy, is the best kind of husband. And if he treat the girl well she will be greatfull to him and start to love him and stay with him for ages.
So I dont think "love at first sight" exist in thai-culture.
Mybe Im wrong, so it could be interesting to hear what people that lives down there think about this issue.

Geir

 

[Fingertoes]

Straight out of the book, titled Bargirl 101. If i had a buck for everytime this line has been used....

Dont worry mate, you wont be the first or the last first-timer love struck farang who feels sorry for the girls and wants to give them buckets of money. As the others have said if you have too much money than you know what to do with, there are starving children in 3rd world countries everywhere.

Either way im not being critical of you, just saying that stories like this are par for the course. Sounds like you had a great trip and hope you get many more.

 

[Singh]

I think you should play along with her story fcuk the living crap out of her and get as many freebies as you can.................I do

 

[Das Boot]

The way I see it is that every visitor to LOS has money otherwise they wouldn't be there. So obviously all BG's know this and the real sneaky ones will play a smart poker game. ie...try before you buy...get into you head and make you feel important...once they sum up the situation ..wham...you don't know what hit you. This of course isn't every BG plan...only the really desperate ones.
At the end of the day, you are your own boss, and making these decisions are tuff...just live with the consequences. :biggrinlo
The first BG I met was telling me all night that she liked me and that she wanted to buy me? At that point, being a rookie in LOS...I was led to believe she wanted me and that it would cost me nothing....so I threw in a spanner and asked her how much she wanted??She told me she wanted 1000 Baht....I then got all serious and told her that if I wanted to pay for love, I would have done that at home...I just wanted to have fun and if I met someone then great...Big mistake....from the next day on she became attached....I slept with her after 2 days and it cost nothing. I offered her money but she wouldn't take it. She told me that she thought I was a good person? whatever that is suppose to mean. :embrassed
On my next visit to LOS I bumped into her again...this time she even bought me and my mate some drinks...how weird is that. I still communicate with her now)email,sms)....but the jury is still out on what her intentions are... no:

 

[darknowhere00]

I like the comment about it being her first time in Phuket, and that she use to work in a CD store... YEAH RIGHT!!

:broken_he

 

[Benz5567]

I totally agree!

 

[Tyuio]

OZSKIN.. I have been to Thailand 15x and I always had a rule 'One girl One night". But in SOI Eric this November 2004. I did my nuts over a BG. Spent $1900 AUD flew back for 3 days, had forgot the Bar and Her name, but I tracked her down to Hawai Bar. One of the Girls rang who they thought I was describing and she left a private party to come and check me out. She was ecstatic to see it was me and stayed with me the next 2 days. With her it was love at first sight, a dream. Now she is with me 4 ever

 

[Agent: Yip]

Well guys I also did something stupid (again)!

Put a lot of money in 2 appartements for eldery people and it is empty for 9 months now! :sad:

Can't rent, I don't know why! It are nice ones, very good service and everything!

As most of my money is in it, I have financial problems now, proberly will not make it in March.

So if this nice guy can piss 400 €, well I have a family to feed, so it is good money spend!

 

[Icepath]

i am not a rich guy,i get by and have enuff cash to sponsor 3-4 trips to los each year.luckily thru discounts thru work.but this leaves me with little cash to do anything else.
i have spent the last 2 trips with same girl and half a trip before that with her.many bm know her,she is a nice girl.she hasnt asked me for a penny on my last 2 tours.she has never asked me to send her money.i have always given her a wad of money when i have left and tell her i will be back to see her.we speak almost everyday via fone or email.she has told me she prefers me on holiday when it is towards the end and i am running out of money.i didnt understand why,as i was of the understanding all thai girls liked money but she said we stayed in more when i was low on cash,meaning she got to spend more time with me alone and keep me to herself.i like this girl a lot and have told her so,i have also explained that if anything was to happen it wouldnt be why she was a bargirl(she was a cashier and insisted to me yea she went with men but not many by any means,her past is that,hers.nothing to do with me).she left her bar on 31st december.she had already told me she hadnt been with another man since early october,to which i cannot doubt as no one i no in patong can verifie if she has or hasnt,and i no a fair few people there,but above all i trust her.she has now moved back to khon kaen,and will be working in a restaraunt next week sometiome(she arranged the job on a visit we had there 10 days ago).i am happy she is trying and she is happy that i am happy.i said give it a go and see how it turns out.whilst she is there she will be getting a passport as she doenst have one.when i return in april i hope to sort some kind of tourist visa out.she doesnt want to come to uk to live and i dont want to jump in headfirst so a holiday here is a start.i dunno how things are gonna turn out,but i am willing to take a chance,it hasnt cost me anything more than it would of if i had butterflyed for 2 trips so what have i got to lose.i no theres a few snipers on here that will shoot me down.but i am happy,she seems happy,and the main thing is i genuinelly trust her and believe that what we have could be the start of something.
i never thought i would of gone down this road,but what can i do???will let you no if i get turned over or not,but until it happens i am happy.
steve

 

[Ked misybeer]

Incredible no of BM's are dropping like flies

of the ones I know there are only 2 butterflys left. Whats going on man

G

 

[new001]

Geespot - it is a bit of an epidemic isn't it? But I'm sure there'll be a new generation along in a minute to pick up where the veterans left off.

I got bitten myself the other week, for the first time ever. Stayed with the same girl in Pattaya for a whole week! Incredible! She had her own little apartment that she kept really nice and after a couple of days she was saying I could move in with her and save the hotel money. I didn't. But one day we went to the Friday market and I bought her a couple of plants and a new pair of curtains. They cost 300 baht. I'll never forget how chuffed she was with them. She kept opening and closing the curtains, standing back to admire them from different points in the room, and got me to take pictures of them from several different angles. You've got to love them, haven't you?

 

[gridagent]

I think the important thing in any relationship is whether or not the parties involved give enough trust to each other, without it a relationship becomes meaningless. If you need to boost your ego or to prove your manhood than by all means sleep with a different girl every night, but in the end I think finding one girl whom you can bond with is the path that will and can bring you more joy than being a butterfly. Anyway Steve, I’m happy for you.

 

[NoNo]

Add me to the list of BM's dropping like flies. Although i was never really a butterfly to begin with anyway. Its taken 4 trips with the same girl and i think shes finally peirced my armour...


Good luck R3aps, youve stayed with her a long time now, so you should know her personality pretty well. Best of luck mate. Hope it all works out.

 

[dsk]

cheers mate.i remember the night i met you,we both had arguments with our girls and where both out on our own.how pissed we was that night i shall not forget.cannot even remember how many shots we did in such a short time.
take care
steve

 

[Salvo]

not comments from me mate ,
let me know how you get on with the tourist visa ,
hmmm for me its same same

 

[Rosa Mistica]

the visa is a non starter for about a month as they are not doing any due tsunami stuff taking precedence for now.but will keep you updated.i think it will take at least 2 attempts,a mate is waiting for his 2nd application.but his girl is 18 unemployed and has all the writing on the wall to not return to los.i been told it takes something that makes them think the girl will return to thailand and not be a burden on the uk.her having 2 kids she has to return to may help,i dont no,its all new to me so i will take it as it comes.
steve

 

[64224mah]

UK visas can be bought... Fast and no interview..

No visa no cost..

 

[CreepyCrawlers123]

Good luck with everything than R3aps. IMHO i think it`s better to let a BG come to your country and see if she likes it (weather, food, other culture) That way you sure if it works out or not. I think there are too many guy`s who had fallen in love maybe some BG`s too and rushed head over heals into everything.
Sometimes it`s even hard for farangs to come back to their own country. Last month we met a thai-belgian couple who came back to Belgium after twenty years. He wanted to stay here for 3 years, work a little bit and visit his family. After one month he`s already talking about going back to LOS cause he can`t adjust to the hexic life overhere. He`s not used to rush anymore to end everything on time.