First real bad experience

[avg guy]

Was feeling good today and found some time to get in a session. While driving up 400, called up Sunshine and asked for Jamies availability. Was told she wasn't working today....
*Slam on breaks, hands to the sky* NOOOOOOOO!
Yes I know I have said I wouldn't be back at sunshine but haven't seen Jamie for some time and well, I just wanted me some Jamie

Never been to Vivid and thought I'd give it a go, and asked for M-. Thought her pics looked appetizing and since Vivid is part of same ownership as sunshine....service should be in same caliber, right? WRONG WRONG WRONG (in this case). First I would like to say that the spa itself was pretty impressive. Same line as premier, flirt etc...Imho.

M- came in and said Hi. No hug, but started the small talk to break the ice. Asked me to get on my stomach, continued the small talk. Began to massage...... aaaannd continued the small talk and talk and talk and talk. BS was next to non existent, which she kept talking through. No closeness, no sensuality no passion. Even during the mechanical unhappy finish, she kept talking.

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy some idle chit chat to get to know one another but when you are hoping to get into a sensual mood the last thing you want to keep hearing is someones views on traveling with their dog, opinions of eyelash extensions, work ethics of people now-a-days etc. Talking before and after is good, during is good too if it relates to the activity but non stop talk about anything and everything, is not.

I am identifying the MPA as M- simply because I don't want to be the guy to possibly ruin her career in a public forum. If you really care to know because you plan on visiting vivid, PM me.

Repeat..................................................................................................................Nope. Sorry was trying to get a word in.

 

[snoopdoggie]

Sounds like a pretty typical woman to me. I think about 75-80% of women are non-stop talkers. I think it has something to do with the way their brains are programmed. Most men are listeners rather than talkers. I also tend to think that you can learn more from listening rather talking all the time. Sometimes I pretend I have an interest in what the mpa is talking about, thinking that it might be sexual turn on for her.

Perhaps you can take over the conversation with something else you might be interesting in talking about. For example once during a massage, since I am also a car guy, I started talking about a brand new Buick Regal I recently took for a test drive. I was telling her about how good the traction was with all-wheel drive. I was driving through side streets after a six inch snowfall. I told her how I put the pedal to the metal, without experiencing any swerving or slipping of any kind. Then I told her about all the safety features it has. ABS braking system, 10 air bags, Rear backup camera, blind spot monitoring system, lane departure warning system, adaptive cruise control, automatic braking system, OnStar, Sirius satellite radio. She said, what, automatic braking system? I said, yeah, that's when the driver gets distracted, and the car gets to close behind another car, it slows down and brakes by itself. I think she was very impressed, and it turned her on.

Oh, sorry that you didn't get to see Jaime, but I think she's in tomorrow night, if I'm not mistaken. I'll double check the schedule. I'm due to see her also.
I've heard Jaime has a nice booty to play with, she likes having it slapped also. I think I'm going to ask her if I can slap it with my dick. She might like that too.

 

[rhuarc]

Not sure I'd classify this as a "real bad experience". "Real bad" implies something went seriously wrong.

I've had a few sessions like this. It's a problem when the idle chatter doesn't disappear when the real fun starts, and hopefully she'll learn that. You could suggest this to the spa owner so that the MPA in question can get some feedback.

 

[sweetbabyjamie]

Was feeling good today and found some time to get in a session. While driving up 400, called up Sunshine and asked for Jamies availability. Was told she wasn't working today....
*Slam on breaks, hands to the sky* NOOOOOOOO!
Yes I know I have said I wouldn't be back at sunshine but haven't seen Jamie for some time and well, I just wanted me some Jamie

Never been to Vivid and thought I'd give it a go, and asked for M-. Thought her pics looked appetizing and since Vivid is part of same ownership as sunshine....service should be in same caliber, right? WRONG WRONG WRONG (in this case). First I would like to say that the spa itself was pretty impressive. Same line as premier, flirt etc...Imho.

M- came in and said Hi. No hug, but started the small talk to break the ice. Asked me to get on my stomach, continued the small talk. Began to massage...... aaaannd continued the small talk and talk and talk and talk. BS was next to non existent, which she kept talking through. No closeness, no sensuality no passion. Even during the mechanical unhappy finish, she kept talking.

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy some idle chit chat to get to know one another but when you are hoping to get into a sensual mood the last thing you want to keep hearing is someones views on traveling with their dog, opinions of eyelash extensions, work ethics of people now-a-days etc. Talking before and after is good, during is good too if it relates to the activity but non stop talk about anything and everything, is not.

I am identifying the MPA as M- simply because I don't want to be the guy to possibly ruin her career in a public forum. If you really care to know because you plan on visiting vivid, PM me.

Repeat..................................................................................................................Nope. Sorry was trying to get a word in.

NOOOO!! Ugh this made me so sad!! The day you wanna come see my my ass isn’t working sigh I miss our fun shmexy times to... next time sexy! And I’m sirry about your awful experience as well at vivid Sad Jamie

 

[snoopdoggie]

NOOOO!! Ugh this made me so sad!! The day you wanna come see my my ass isn’t working sigh I miss our fun shmexy times to... next time sexy! And I’m sirry about your awful experience as well at vivid Sad Jamie

Are you in tomorrow night, Jaime?

 

[sweetbabyjamie]

Are you in tomorrow night, Jaime?

I am hehe PM me

 

[thedirtyone]

I prefer to see people who aren't overtly shy or quiet but regarding the chatting, I think it depends on the person. But it also can't feel forced, like the obligatory small talk. As long as the conversation doesn't surround the job. I hate talking about my job, and I would only continue conversing about her job if the stories are interesting (comparing experiences from different MPs if they've moved, funny stories in the back room or session - if she's going to bitch about all her clients, forget it). I hate talking about family in this setting though, included the dreaded "do you have a wife" question, or if she starts to talk about her boyfriend. If we both hit it off on a mutually interested topic, then I welcome it as it develops rapport.

Plus, have you ever heard a girl try to hold a conversation during the fun parts when you're pleasuring her. The breaks in words just so she can let out a gasp and moan is pretty hot. And usually, the conversation turns more into sexy talk.

 

[Notorious71]

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Don't get me wrong, I enjoy some idle chit chat to get to know one another but when you are hoping to get into a sensual mood the last thing you want to keep hearing is someones views on traveling with their dog, opinions of eyelash extensions, work ethics of people now-a-days etc. Talking before and after is good, during is good too if it relates to the activity but non stop talk about anything and everything, is not.

I am identifying the MPA as M- simply because I don't want to be the guy to possibly ruin her career in a public forum. If you really care to know because you plan on visiting vivid, PM me.

Repeat..................................................................................................................Nope. Sorry was trying to get a word in.[/QUOTE]

Not sure why you won't reveal the MPA, this is a forum and you would want to know if someone had a similar experience. You are enabling a bad MPA SMH

 

[JaimeWolf]

Sounds like a pretty typical woman to me. I think about 75-80% of women are non-stop talkers. I think it has something to do with the way their brains are programmed.

Yep. A woman's brain is wired directly to her mouth. A man's brain is wired directly to his cock. The best way to achieve understanding is therefore...

 

[snoopdoggie]

Yep. A woman's brain is wired directly to her mouth. A man's brain is wired directly to his cock. The best way to achieve understanding is therefore...

Ha ha ha hah. I agree most definitely. Ha ha ha hah.

 

[avg guy]

Not sure why you won't reveal the MPA, this is a forum and you would want to know if someone had a similar experience. You are enabling a bad MPA SMH

As I stated "I don't want to be the guy to possibly ruin her career in a public forum". Who knows, maybe she wanted nothing to do with me in this session the moment she saw me. This is where YMMV may come in to play. Others might have had a great time and those who have not met her and will in the future might also have a great time. I didn't and wanted to share the experience. Like I mentioned, for those who are serious in wanting to visit Vivid and want to know who it was can PM me and I will let them know who it was. They can make their own decision from there.

 

[FallsviewFriend]

I think most of us have been in similar situations, I personal have made some (turned out) horrible choices while speeding across the 401 with a twinkle in my eye.
Now when I encounter a "SuperTalker" with a poor MPA skilset, I switch it up and massage them for awhile and change the tone of the session. They usually change gears accordingly and get with the program.
If things aren't going the way you desire, Make a change!