Ever fall in love with a prostitute?

[Nelly]

King
Yes these were actual reasons from money from my one and only ex novia de Miami ! Most of them were repeating of course except the cop and robber story. I feel like an idiot more so now in hindsight. But this doesnt give just Mexican women a bad name. Well these girls dont have a good name anyway !This trait is common to all women providers in many parts of the world that I have been. I got taken in by a real master con artist and I got sucked after a trophy chase. I prefer Latinas but no more love in the zona or any zonas for that matter.

 

[Shim]

Fireballs, you brought up an interesting topic back to life ! Thanks. Well for some like Kittfreak it will be a dud !
Despite conventional wisdom, some of the mongers do fall in love for whatever reason, it may be that they are lonely or recently come out of a bad relation or just got totally (probably falsely) bowled over by the charm of the lady. I can tell you from personal experience, but I will leave my part aside for the moment as I am still on the fencepost not knowing what to do. I feel like hitting myself over for getting into this. My heart says something, but my head does not agree ! It takes courage (and stupidity) to love an entertainer girl. (note I am not using the word prostitute, even though most if not all of them are in zona)

WILL IT WORK OUT ??!!!!
Most probably not, thats my personal opinion. Depends on how much baggage the couple is having and whether its true love and not a making use of the other person kind of thing. ANd lot of other factors, including competing mongers

I would like to hear from the members, whats their experience, how they got in and/or got out of it, what lessons learned, what advice. Dont have to give specifics if not comfortable


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[SamJenkins]

Well, they're still in high school so I am glad that they didn't. I could have married my Mexicana but she reminded me too much of my ex-wife. My son now has a black girlfriend and we're talking small town Texas. Nobody gives a fuck anymore about this stuff, not here anyway.

 

[Saza]

Amigomio, you didn't answer KingTijuanero question do you think you are better than certain Mexican who may be a little darker than you maybe not have enough Spanish blood in them, or even no Spanish blood? King Tijuanero is right you certainly seem to be hung up on race and Caste systems in Mexico and among putas?

Because non of us can see the difference or like me who believe any difference at all comes from racism and skin color. Amigomio, can you tell us what we are missing? What are the great differences, and how does it effect their sexual performance? Better or worst

I'm also wondering if I would run into you in a bar Amigomio would you be like some of my in laws from Monterey, and tell me your Spanish, and expect me to bow at your feet?

BTW, I usually call sex workers in Tijuana sex workers, but in this thread I want to strip away any pretenses of these girls are doing. But I certainly don't think I'm better than putas, as I'm just as bad. Ask guys like Sampson and Burt who know me from other sites, when guys on sex forums talk about abusing the chicas, or saying other derogatory words I'm right there defending them, with a few choice words of my own. What do you do Amigomio, except add to the negative perception of sex workers and all Mexican people by saying racism is the way of life in Mexico, as if it's a good thing, because that way you can feel better about yourself?

 

[badhabyt]

Fireballs:
I don't assume, I went thru it.
A visitor from Houston Tx to Monterrey, went thru it.
Got the email to proove it... many others have
And you sirs, are just posting and posting without reading Bohemians respective posts.
Guys, once again, you only go to TJ once in a while...
Me, I just get in my car and drive to the clubs here in MTY no more than 15 minutes away and I do that 2 times a week for the daily afternoon buffets, 2 times in the week night for the for my night rounds and once or twice on the weekends spending the afternoon at our one and only Inifinito club (you haven't one of this at TJ, not like AB, but incredible to be at).
I know the mechanics and dynamics of the business... not to mention the language. Makes it easier to understand what's going on.
You guys preaching conformism from a country that has now no free speach (may I quote Don Imus here?) and civility between races and genderes has been imposed by law?
Please, I prefer a corupt and decadent society as ours, compared to one that allows rampant sex acts as the going ons at places like New Orleans (preKaterina) or what the Spring Breakers do, but you are not allowed to buy sex cause it is "wrong".
So... who is more decadent than us?
Us or the guys looking for one of our manifistations of our decadent way of life?
So simple for you to stay at your side of the border, but you just can't.
Shall we keep at it?
Cause I know what it feels, I know the urge to go out and look for an 18 year old that will do what ever I want for money...
Yeah... that's a good one!!!
With all due respect, if you don't like our country, why don't you stay at yours???

Ps: From what I gather here, I am more open and honest than you guys are... you just stick with the "hire a hooker mentality" with your eyes closed,cause you are really afraid to consider mongering for hookers a vice and it is a vice, like drugs.

 

[Canned Frijoles]

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[Prodigy]

King I was pointing my roots to Fireballs.
Bye the way, have you been to Monterrey and Guadalajara?
Have you seen the clear and open lines that destinguish one class from another...?
It's not Mexicans per se, it's our society that permits us to be openly classist and racists.
And I guess I know much more of the American than you do of ours. I was educated, 10 years, at an American school (I can still say the Pledge of Alliance and Star Sprangled Banner above the "Oh Jose can you see" part)
Come on... I can't post a single example here of it, cause they are really, really bad.

 

[SucreCaramel]

These Ex novias of yours told all these excuses 1-5 to get money out of you?
Talk about money hungry hoes.They give Mexican women a bad image.

 

[Madeleine Z]

Amigomio wrote:

Amigomio, you assume a lot; I'm pretty sure I know what our monger friend is going through? It's just I don't always agree with what you are saying.I have close personal friends that also think they are in LOVE with Tijuana ladies of the night, and I even talk to other via PM about their situation. ( I also ignore many PMs I get)

Amingomio you claim I can't see the caste systems at work among our Sex workers in Tijuana, perhaps you are right? ( I doubt it) But I generally don't think it's a good idea saying Mexicans are racist. Of course they are racist, hell everybody is racist to a certain degree. But you know how you accuse me not seeing the different caste systems? Well their are certain people from the US, and this board is mostly from the US. They have already heard Mexican are racist, as it's no surprise to them, and it seems they just live to put down Mexico as being some kind of third world corrupt country, and that's it's only good to come to Mexico to fuck it's low class filthy whores in that filthy country, where every place looks like TJ. These people who hold these beliefs really don't distinguish anything about it's people, Spanish, Indian, light and dark skin. To them all Mexican are poor, and look like the illegal poor Mexican aliens outside of the Home Depot in the US.

Why add cannon fodder to a few wrong way thinking American so they could go on about racist Mexico, while forgetting to look at themselves? ( this board isn't bad at all, but there are others that are real bad with racial attitudes)

 

[Wavy14]

I'm bringing back the topic 'have you ever falling in love with a prostitute?"

It's an interesting subject and if you hang around red light districts with prostitutes you might fall in love and out of love many times with these sex workers? One reason is your in close proximity with these girls all the time, and after all, believe it or not, sex workers are human too, with real emotions, but some or most are also hardened pros who are only interested in your money. Studies have shown that people tend to fall in love and marry to those they are in close proximity to, and it makes sense, if your going to be in a place like TJ all the time, you are going to fall in love. I even read about a study in Germany, that said 1/4 of all pimps end up marrying one of their hoes!

So this tells me YES, it's possible for a monger to fall in love with a prostitute, and even possible that she can really love you back.

But my questions is: Will it work out?

I recently learned about someone I knew from another site who got engaged to I believe to a 'hottie Central' Adelitas, these are the very best looking chicas working at Adelitas, the so-called 'trophy fucks' if you will. I met the guy one time, and had a few close talks to him via email about another subject, and a little about his relationship with his new girl, and still hanging out in TJ.

The guy has been living with this girl in Tijuana while he commutes to works in the San Diego and returns to Tijuana at night. But recently he filed papers with immigration services for some type of visa that allows her to come into the US, but she doesn't have back and forth privileges. I guess that takes a little awhile, or maybe after the wedding?

In the next few posts I'm going to explorer his probability for success in the US, and so far he bucked the odd and still is with her after at least two years, already a miracle for monger/ex-sexworker relationships. ( It won't just be about this individual, it will be in general, because like others I have gotten very close to a few special ladies in Tijuana)

 

[alan2dylan]

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[teacup]

Exactly. I could careless if these chicas told me that they are 100% Spanish blood with white skin with green eyes. To me they are just greedy hoes ,selling their bodies for some dollars.

Im sure to Aminogo it means alot to him. He has hang ups on caste ,race class.

 

[anonomous]

But they didn't marry them.

 

[Fideal]

Top 5 Reasons for getting money from you

Ok, I had enough of the comments which might be construed as racist. Let me get back to the love board ! If you ever had the misfortune or are a idiot (like me !) to have fallen in love with a provider, Here is what you will hear for giving her money !

# 5 Mi cell phone problema, no credito (no credit on my cell phone)
# 4 Next week is my cousins cumpleanos, necessito to buy present (birthday)
# 3 I have to go to Mazatlan for my neighbours bautizar (baptism)
# 2 My baby no alimento, supermarket (no food for my child)
# 1 En Robo robbed my money in mi casa while I was working

Well I admit, I havent been as good as Jay Leno, But you guys can add more to it if interested. This is what I have actually heard from my "Novia" or ex Novia. There are a few others which I forgot

 

[Kynndra]

HELL no...haha.. I'm no reservist flyboy. I'm an active duty cavalry scout(army) that was royally fucked and put on recruiter duty in HEMET of all places. i chose So Cal battalion..originally from Florida..hate the east coast. I requested san diego company with a specific request for imperial beach station so I would be close to the beach and TJ...

I'm trying to make the best of being in Hemet, but transitioning from actually being a soldier and training, shooting, etc everyday to being a bitch ass used carsalesman in a uniform is beating at my psyche. If it werent for my proximity to such a great mongering heaven as TJ and the AMPs in the inland empire, I would be on the 5th floor right now in a rubber room.

back to the topic at hand:

I have never fallen in love with a prostitute, but considering I have paid for sex more than Ive gotten it for free- I would surmise I have fallen in love with prostitution.

For shy guys such as myself its great cus now I find it much easier to talk to beautiful women that are traditionally "not in my league' because in the back of my head I think " Ive done things with women hotter than you that would make your momma cry" haha.

 

[raymond]

I definately agree that, as a monger, I am not morality superior to a woman who works as a prostitute. I do what I do as a form of recreation and she may be doing what she does to feed her family.

Bringing any foreign women, regardless of profession, the the US is infinately more problematic that having a relationship and staying in her country. In the third world, a man has many more options than the woman and in the first world, her choices improve while ours don't.

There are many potential difficulties with a foreign relationship...language, culture, the fact that most third world women have placed a high prioity on survival their entire lives and we have taken survival for granted.

I'm not sure if I understand what love is...it's a lot easier to simply look for a satisfying relationship. Relationships are built on mutual benefit, looking for someone who can make your life better. Obviously being relatively rich makes me more attractive. If my GF can get past the fact that I like having this beautiful woman on my arm and in my bed, I guess I'll forgive her for not wanting to be poor.

I don't feel relationshps with prostitutes are always bad but many women have done it too long to enjoy sex or to respect men. Some women lose their femininity (except to manipulate as their solicit business) and some don't.

 

[Whipass Chick]

I simple reject the notion that there is a big difference between two people because one of them is a monger and the other is a prostitute. If you ask me they are two peas in a pot, meant for each other....both looking for each other in that 'red light district' in different cities all over the world. A monger isn't better than a sex provider...he may think he is but he isn't. Now there are cultural differences, and one might be on a higher social economical level....but I also understand that many chicas at Adelitas are pulling down close to 100K a year, so maybe a few of those hot girls are look downing on the monger who is fucking her with his tiny paycheck, smaller then hers,, and that too would be wrong.




I guess for a long term relationsiip to work the monger should learn how to speak Spanish or the provider learn English. But I seen it....true short-term LOVE, where both parties didn't know a lick of each others language. I use to take my friend from the Middle East who didn't speak any Spanish, and he fell for this girl at Hong Kong, and she fell in LOVE with him. It was very cute seeing her cry every time we had to go.( they would date outside the bar) They really had a thing going, and tried to learn each others language. I seen other loves develop and heard about it, and not just from paid providers.........Sometimes LOVE transcends language....and sometimes words don't need to be spoken to know you really like that person, and they are a good person.

 

[Drummer435]

Amigomio not all Mexicans are racist. My family comes from Mexico and are like 500 generation Mexicans. Yeah i am a Mexican-American mestizo born in the USA who has visited Mexico. And i can tell you most Mexican are not racist.
Maybe your type, the children of immigrants born in Mexico are probably racist and their amigos and familias probably don't associate will real Mexicanos. Yes Amerindians suffer discrimination in Mexico but most Mestizos don't.



Did your Spanish parents teach you to be racist against the Mexicanos? Do you see yourself Mexicano or Spaniard?

 

[Rosy L]

Girls have the unfair advaneforum.xxxe of not having the same "button" on sex that guys do and therefore have a better poker face when it comes to this. they also have a lot of practice at playing with guys because they get hit upon so often if they are anyways half decent looking.

Unfortunately in the prostitution industry, girls come into contact with insincere guys at almost every turn. they have a pre-conceived notion that all guys want to do is fuck them hard and then split so they are "fair game" in the money department. When a guy is smitten by a nice looking girl then his defenses crumble and out comes the wallet under the promise of sex with the girl.

Nothing like seeing a center-fold type girl (subjective of course) on your lap and willing to fuck you for money. How many dreams will she make come true tonight?

Yeah, cool to see you and my other amigos here. When you heading back to Monterrey? Sheesh I miss that place, AND Guadalajara.

Country John

 

[ardi]

I live here, dude, and intermarriage is common. Sure they'll stick to their hombres when they live in towns like Cotulla and Carrizo where 98% of the people are Mexican. Given an opportunity to interact with different kinds of people, they'll go with gringos. Both my sons have had Mexicana girlfriends and so have I.