Do you guys ever feel a bit stuck seeing the same Therapist?

[JacobB]

I have been going to a few places regularly. I personally like changing things up and seeing the various Therapists that might work there.

Well a couple of times. As I am leaving I have run into the therapist I saw previously. And they look a bit hurt that I didn't see them again. I've had them ask if they did a bad job etc. And usually they did a awesome job last time. It's just well...I want to see how all the cars on the lot drive like so to speak.
I've had them exchange numbers to text them ahead of time to make sure they can see me etc.

I'm just a avg guy so I know they are not falling for me lol. But I kinda feel guilty about it , and feel a bit awkward disapointing them.

I was just kinda wondering how you guys handle this? Is there a great way to keep things smooth?

 

[Arastus]

You should go to other places especially for massage purposes If you keep going to the same therapist the massage becomes less effective and blah

 

[Rubmegood]

I actually find this situation somewhat rewarding. I, too, like to see "how each car on the lot drives" when I go to a place with multiple girls. And when a new one comes along I'm anxious to "go for a test drive". When I find one that I really enjoy I will stick with her until her massages start to deteriate. Then I will go to my next favourite girl the next time. Sometimes going back to my 'next-favourite-girl' I find they have stepped up their game to win me over and I might stick with her. Then when I go back to my favourite girl the service is even better! Competition drives a free market!

 

[bigbill]

I like both. I like to see someone regularly that learns how I like things and I like to see new people too in case I "click" with someone.

 

[Deleted member 72001]

To give you some peace of mind, remember that these therapists couldn't give less of a fuck about you. The only thing that bothers them is losing a client for financial $$ reasons. Just think of how many men these therapists see in a given month and just remember that you are nothing to them but money. Don't feel guilty in any way as you have the right to see whoever you want to see. Them trying to make you feel guilty is a play on your weak emotions in order to manipulate you into giving them money once more.

Did you really think that your connection with a therapist is so special that she expects you to never see anyone but her again? LOL. Respectfully please give your head a good shake..

In terms of keeping things smooth as you asked, I guarantee you that the next time you see that therapist, the massage quality will be just as good if not better. So you're really not losing out at all by seeing others. So why do you ever care what they think?

I’m of the belief that you can make great connections with some girls. (Not all) I know I have. I have one great lady (will remain nameless) that will periodically not charge me for the session in appreciation.

But I am also not blind to the greed of some and agree that happens as well, I’m just not sure it is a blanket statement to all.

 

[xy1000]

There are lots of flowers around, so why waste the time and money just on one?

 

[socalguy]

I have my go to masseuse that I see once a month but I also try a new place or a new masseuse once a month as well. Don't feel bad about trying a new masseuse, at the end of the day you are just $$$ to them.

 

[Sackattack]

Most you guys are seeing right through them. Money is what they care for.
They likely talk about you when you left after. Lots ladies know each other even in different places. Don’t care who I see usually pick by how I feel & what area need more attention.

 

[JacobB]

Trust me I understand it's about making money to them. Otherwise they would be working at a restaurant or T&T and they wouldn't be working the crazy amount of hours that they do.
I like to think we at least have a bit of rapport built up based on a customer/service provider level. I used to work in sales and I had a few clients who were not "friends" but I enjoyed talking with them. And if they chose someone else then it would sting my ego a little tbh. I get that I'm being a little too empathetic.