Sugar-baby who happens to be a massage therapy student

[Bigbull]

It was back in 2017 & 2018 in Shinoukville, more layback and lower prices as compared to Phnom Penh. I did not pick a super model, I picked a petite 23yo plain looking "bookkeeper". Back then, my girl was making around 500,000KHR a year as a parttime bookkeeper, iirc, I offered her 1,200,000KHR plus gifts fancy food etc. plus I left her a 300,000KHR parting gift. It sounds like a lot until you realize that it is just a little more than $500CAD. I generally prefer the plainer looking petite girls. To put things in context, back then, it was only around $30CAD for a street girl or freelancer to overnight with you. If you find your girl inside a girly bar or a massage parlour, you pay double that plus a fine. Street girls were generally pretty aggressive and were found a along the beach and main drag. Freelancers were pretty layback and scattered at restaurants/bars near the resorts. I like parttime freelancers. I found mine at a bar next to my resort.

Most Cambodian girls did not carry condoms back then so it is up to you whether you want to carry and use one. Not sure about 2024 Cambodian rates and safety practices; even if rates doubled, still a bargain.

The average monthly salary of a doctor is $100 to $150 in Cambodia!!!!!

 

[Qster]

The average monthly salary of a doctor is $100 to $150 in Cambodia!!!!!

That's pretty messed up, a bar girl can make more than that servicing two or three clients.

 

[ObiWanPotato]

May I ask..what place are you thinking of going to?

no where yet. I am curious about this idea. nothing more

 

[Qster]

One more thing about strange laws is that if you are paying for companionship and you travel together internationally, the current Canadian and US trafficking laws are both broad enough to charge the client with trafficking. There are recent cases of the US charging individuals with trafficking charges while travelling with escorts; just reading up about one right now. I personally wouldn't risk it going to countries like the US.

 

[massageyeg]

One more thing about strange laws is that if you are paying for companionship and you travel together internationally, the current Canadian and US trafficking laws are both broad enough to charge the client with trafficking. There are recent cases of the US charging individuals with trafficking charges while travelling with escorts; just reading up about one right now. I personally wouldn't risk it going to countries like the US.

I did not know this. Thank you.

 

[Bigbull]

One more thing about strange laws is that if you are paying for companionship and you travel together internationally, the current Canadian and US trafficking laws are both broad enough to charge the client with trafficking. There are recent cases of the US charging individuals with trafficking charges while travelling with escorts; just reading up about one right now. I personally wouldn't risk it going to countries like the US.

In that case you don’t have to disclose that she’s coming with you
Take two tickets instead of booking in single ticket

 

[Albertaman]

You all are sweating out minute details of far away places but missing out on the potential opportunities on the paths less travelled in your own hometown


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[curiousone64]

One more thing about strange laws is that if you are paying for companionship and you travel together internationally, the current Canadian and US trafficking laws are both broad enough to charge the client with trafficking. There are recent cases of the US charging individuals with trafficking charges while travelling with escorts; just reading up about one right now. I personally wouldn't risk it going to countries like the US.

Interesting....

Would you mind sharing the link for the articles that you are referring to?

 

[Qster]

Interesting....

Would you mind sharing the link for the articles that you are referring to?

I started with Matt Gaetz's trafficking charges then went a little deeper into the Mann Act which was used to investigate Gaetz. The Mann Act allows the US to charge any individual with trafficking for anything deemed immoral; basically consensual non-commercial vanilla sex is excluded but everything else is fair game. LOL, in certain states, even anal sex is deemed immoral. So if you pay someone for sex (i.e. commercial sex) and travel across state line or borders, the Mann Act can be used to charge you. Look up Eliot Spitzer, a former NY Governor who got charged crossing state line with escorts.

I don't think the Canadian laws are nearly as bad but there had been many high profile cases involving the Mann Act; even Chuck Berry went to jail for it. Not saying they would charge an unknown Canadian, just saying they can.

 

[xtc27]

I started with Matt Gaetz's trafficking charges then went a little deeper into the Mann Act which was used to investigate Gaetz. The Mann Act allows the US to charge any individual with trafficking for anything deemed immoral; basically consensual non-commercial vanilla sex is excluded but everything else is fair game. LOL, in certain states, even anal sex is deemed immoral. So if you pay someone for sex (i.e. commercial sex) and travel across state line or borders, the Mann Act can be used to charge you. Look up Eliot Spitzer, a former NY Governor who got charged crossing state line with escorts.

I don't think the Canadian laws are nearly as bad but there had been many high profile cases involving the Mann Act; even Chuck Berry went to jail for it. Not saying they would charge an unknown Canadian, just saying they can.

If the plane stops in the US … Mann act applies.

 

[id481]

The sugar baby community is so small I think I know her... I have been on and off seeking and find it hit and miss but when it hits it is amazing. I don't get emotionally involved but it's still never a fun date when a long term arrangement ends.

I miss her a lot, and I hear you... I try not to get emotionally attached.

 

[torontobiggie]

Yes and no, each arrangement is unique, it is up to you and her to decide: how much per month, how many visits per month, how many hours per visit, how you spend those hours. I had three long term arrangements now. On a per visit basis, it was definitely more than an incall but on a per hour (per shot) basis, it was cheaper as most of my visits were dinners, overnights, MSOGs, another round in the morning type of thing.

The worst parts about these arrangements are the goodbyes. My first one in Edmonton ended with one hell of a weekend. It was sad to see her go but she left me with a great memory. My second one in Calgary left without a word, nothing, she just vanished. That one hurt a lot, always wondered if I did something wrong.

You didn’t do anything wrong. You were just a cash machine to her. You dispensed the cash and she walks away. Yes she smiles and says nice things about you but she does it so the cash machine doesn’t malfunction. Women know how to put on a show to get what you want. Don’t be a fool.


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[massageyeg]

You didn’t do anything wrong. You were just a cash machine to her. You dispensed the cash and she walks away. Yes she smiles and says nice things about you but she does it so the cash machine doesn’t malfunction. Women know how to put on a show to get what you want. Don’t be a fool.


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I just think in a lot of cases they don't know how to break up/don't want confrontation. She probably got a boyfriend, ghosted you while she was figuring it out, and then never wrote back.

 

[EdmontonguyYEG]

In that case you don’t have to disclose that she’s coming with you
Take two tickets instead of booking in single ticket

Who's paying for that 2nd ticket?
I suppose she could pay for her own, and get reimbursed.