Recommendations for first timmer?

[VassileNupolopol]

I have been thinking for a while on trying MPs for a first time in the near future. I was wondering if you guys are kind enough to give some recommendations to a shyer type guy. Thanks in advance.

PS: Since it would be my first time I don't really have any particular preferences though I'd lean more towards Caucasians or Asians.

 

[seashell2525]

I'd suggest Legends. They have a great roster.

http://www.legendsmassage.com/

Make sure you tell the girl it's your first time, and they can walk you through the process of how it all works. That and relax and have fun.

Don't worry everyone was nervous the first time.

 

[smoochy "yassassin"]

Another suggestion is Alyson at Temptations. I have read several reviews on other boards about first timers who had a wonderful time with her, and if you are a young stud she's looking for the guy who can make the record of 5 SOG in an hour!

Good luck to you bud, but you know what they say, once you break the seal, you might not be able to stop.

 

[Bowling for some Soup]

I'd also say go see Alyson. I have never seen her but I have met her and she is very sweet. I think she would be a great pick for a first timer.

 

[SourSkittles:)]

Thanks everyone for the recommendations. Any tips for preparations and do and don't do and things I should know about for being a first time? like do I have to put the donations in an envelope before hand and what not?

 

[Mejoliza]

When I first started, I felt more nervous than a 13 yr old boy in a Super Model convention (and about has horny).

There is a few things you may want to know...

1) Most MPs, even if they don't tell you up front, allow you to view all the girls who are working and available. So if the one that comes first does not suit your fancy, ask to see the other girls. You are paying for the time, you may as well get someone you think you will enjoy.

2) Many MP web sites have a set of pictures up for most of the girls. These pics are not always accurate, but are usually close.

3) If there is someone in particular you want to see... PHONE ahead. If you wonder in, expecting to see a specific person, you may be sadly disappointed.

4) Check out reviews, both here and on Perb. Although there may be some bad reviews, you may want to look at a good cross section of reviews to decide if she is the one for you. Not every SP is for every guy. Many, like me, require at least some form of connection mentally as well as physical. so it can be pretty subjective.

5) Show up very presentable. I try to present my self the same way I would on a first date with a new GF. Quite frankly, your hygiene is just as important to her as hers is to you.

6) Be kind. She is another human too. You should not treat a GF badly, and you should not treat these lovely women badly either. You will find that you will get much more mileage being kind than you would if you were an ass.

7) I tend to not put $$ in an envelope. If the SP asks for it up front (which some do for new clients), just confirm her fees for what you want and dole it up. I tend to try to identify how much I am going to spend up front anyway. It keeps the awkwardness out of the play time.

8) Most important: RELAX... They are there to give you the time of your life. Enjoy the ride!

Hope this helps bro,

Happy Pooning!

 

[eddiez_1967]

oh yeah... recommended locations:

http://www.revivemassageandspa.com/
http://www.legendsmassage.com/
http://www.50streetmassage.com/schedule.htm

There are many more, but here are a few of the nice places. These places all allow you to see all the available girls before you make your choice.

 

[Katkin]

You being the shyer type, I recommend that you should start off at a very gentle pace..

Paige at 50th st..Kendra at REvive..Lilith at supreme...

 

[wildy]

Those 3 ladies maybe a little intimidating for first timers, no? Although the 3 of them would be a guarantee great sessions.

 

[Askonly]

1) Probably goes without saying but I will anyway good hygiene goes hand in hand with a good session. Always take a shower at the studio before the session just for the lady's comfort. Throw a little travel size mouthwash in your glove box and have a swish before the session.

2) I used to confirm session particulars with the lady (price & services) in the room before starting, they won't talk specifics until then due to bylaws, and then lay out the cash on the massage table or on the shelf by towels. Some guys advocate hanging on to the cash until the end of the session.

A lot, most, ladies want cash upfront because they are worried about a ripoff and while that can be two way street my experience was generally fine with one or two notable exceptions and truth be told the shitty ladies are going to get your cash upfront regardless.

Generally once the lady knows you cash can wait until end but I always liked to get it out of the way, taken care of then you can concentrate on enjoying the session.

Of course YMMV (your mileage may vary) as always but you odds are improved following above, checking for good reviews and being polite and respectful.

3) Suggest you make an appointment at one of the more high end studios for your first session and maybe arrive five minutes early.

A final caution once you start it can be very addictive and expensive.

 

[Crim Liar]

he should start at de very top...wid a threesome of dese 3 ladies..what don't kill u just makes you stronger!! jk...

pls forgive me, grinmar..i have a warped sense of humor..these 3 ladies would be overwhelming for u.

for a shyer type, go see Nika at Penthouse..gentle, sweet, sensitive.....

 

[Cap.n1Eye]

Thanks for all the recommendations and tips everyone. I'll keep your caution in mind Rafter and so I've noticed about your sense of humor Trin lol

 

[Hot Revolver]

Not sure if I would consider them intimidating, but if I had Kendra when I first started, I am not sure I would have lasted long enough to turn over! She is definitely a kind soul and quite frankly a very very good recommendation. Like I mentioned before though, everyone's taste is different. Make sure you get someone who YOU like.

 

[Captain Claudius]

large double double with a cranberry bran muffin ... good for fiber ... you won't be so stopped up.

 

[Due March 23 2010]

thanks for all the tips and recommendations everyone. I think I'm going to try my first time with Alyson hopefully. ^_^

 

[Lola S]

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[Chace W]

If you want to totally relax and have your stress rubbed away.
I am great with newbies and am known for my relaxing massages.

Not to mention that I have weekly specials.
Dont let my name scare you off.......I have other talents too.
love and laughs
April

 

[MelanieT]

Geeez, April, the massage you gave me wasn't what I would call relaxing. There's no way I could have drifted off to a slumber at any point. My heart was pounding, my body was in endorphin overload, and it took a great deal of effort to not blow a load before I was even on my back.

Relaxing massages, my big toe. But yes, I can imagine you are more than great with newbies.

 

[Sonal]

Kendra for sure. She is pretty damn good with the shy types... She'll have you walking through the halls naked shaking your thing in no time.

 

[Boyba Power!]

Hey, you are here too!

Grimnar, tell us who you saw? Inquiring minds want to know!