please help me!!!!!!!!! my parents introduces to my a family and girl for

[Sleazy]

marriage about a month back? i met that girl and then we kept in contact over phone and finally after 3 weeks we decided to get marreid.she told me about her past that she liked some one from her work palce but it didntwork out with that guy.finally me and she got engaged.now after engagement,one day i asked her about her past relation to know how deep was that then suddenly she told me a truth that she was kidnapped and raped by a taxi driver at some remote area and threw her in forest side when she was in university(she is doctor) and she never told her family about that incident.she told me that if i want then i can quit but dont say to her family about it.she said that guy whom she liked before also left her when she told her about that.she said that she knew that i may leave her too but she cant hide that truth even her close friend told her not to tell her half partener.she said that she doesnot knw why she had been disgraced and punished and wht is her mistake.now i m the one who has to decide what i have to do?i cant shear this turth to my family.i like that girl alot as she is nice and lovely person and i know i will be happy with her but some time this incident of her is making me double minded.please help me that what i should do?
she understand me well and i too.we are much into each other.other than incident,there is nothing i dislike in her.i some time feel that it was not her mistake.what happend to her can happen to any one.it is from GOD.she was not in some physical relation with any one.2nd plus point is that she sheard it with me even though she knows that she put her relation and future in danger.if she wanted then she can hide it easily but she told me about that.guys!!!!!!!!!!please help me.give your suggestions.

 

[Delilah]

well you cannot dislike her for the incident because she was the VICTIM and not the rapist. do you know how hard it is to deal with that??? she is being honest even though she did not know the consequences of her telling you that is awesome that she is an honest person. you need to grow up and let it go and get on with your life with her and have a great marriage and relationship. also sorry to say this but it is none of your parents and her parents business that was assulted and the fact that she told you she have chosen not to so either you let of this and live with her happily or hurt her even more by breaking it up. she needs to also move past that and you will allow this by accepting her for who she is.

 

[Shaylee]

If you really do like her, then what is the sense in hurting her by leaving her? She can't help what happened to her, so the best thing would be to tell her that you are really sorry about what happened, and then stay with her and help her work through the hurt. Why break things off just because of an incident that was not her fault?