You are correct bro.Your expectations are not in line with the reality of dance bars. if you want GFE and better service, other options like NL would be much better.
Sex with DB girls is a complete YMMV situation, specially at fuck factories like RajMahal and Nightingale. They provide "easy" entry, but the service is never guaranteed. That totally depends on a number of factors outside your control.
BTW I have had some great trysts upstairs with Ishika in RajMahal. She is one of my favourites there. I make it a point to spend some time flirting/joking around with the RM girls downstairs before taking them upstairs. I do keep my expectations in check because building a rapport with the chicks may improve your chances of having a better experience, but it is not guaranteed. I have never had a bad experience with any of the chicks I have taken upstairs at RM so far. But again that can change on the next visit since these DB chicks are very unpredictable in bed.
I got your point, I have to invest money and time at these places. Hope after few visits, I ll feel better.
Anyhow, nothing is so easy to be achieved in life, especially when one wants something more than normal.
Thanks.